Before I met the guy that I'm with now "Andy", I was cheating on one of my girl friends with her long-term boyfriend, "Mike". And now that I'm with Andy (who is the best friend of Mike), I still can't stop cheating with Mike! I know it's wrong, but how can I break off my ties with Mike without it being weird? No one knows that we have been hooking up, so if I tell him it's over and he reacts badly, how can my friends not know that something is up? I love Andy and don't want to hurt him, and especially don't want my affair with Mike to be found out by him. Any suggestions?
2007-02-02 06:40:21 · 14 answers · asked by truebrunette 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sooner or later Andy is going to find out or Mike's girlfriend which will be even worse. Just tell Mike that you feel guilty and can no longer be with him, it isn't fair to his girlfriend or Andy.
2007-02-02 06:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the sure fire way to be sure he will never cheat on him again. I know this because I am a male that has been tempted and gone over in a relationship. You are talking about making a family, moving in together and maybe even getting married. If you don't want to face the chance that he will not only cheat again, but cheat in your bed, here is your solution. Drop Him Like A Hot Brick! He made a mistake, why do you want to make a mistake and keep him around? He met some girl and wanted to have sex with her? Yeah, Right. First he cheated, then he lied, and I suppose he promised he would never do it again. Once he lies to you, he's a liar. Don't let him do it again by taking him back.
2016-03-29 01:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell they guy who you are cheating with that its over that you cant cheat anymore and that you wont tell your girl friend about the cheating because its yp to him and tell andy becuase if you dont he will find out eventually and he wont forgive you what if mike would tell andy becuase he still wanted to continue the affair
2007-02-02 06:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's disgusting. Sorry. I'm not one to judge usually, but fidelity and loyalty should be everything that a person bases who they are on. I don't think you are a very good person, because either way you are intentionally hurthing someone, whether it's either guy you are sleeping with/ or your friend. that's just wrong.
2007-02-02 06:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess just think about breaking it off and telling your g/f to and get rid of the big thoughts for right now
2007-02-02 06:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should think about what would happen if your current boyfriend found out. Try to switch positions with him. You would not only lose a guy that you love and he loves u but you will lose your happiness. I know it sounds corny but try to think before you act.
2007-02-03 07:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by ESSJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stop going out with all guys.. dont have a boyfriend.. then you aren't cheating.. and get the guys to stop having girlfriends....
2007-02-02 06:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by Chrissie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, but you don't deserve it
because you don't care about anyone else but you you you
if you did care about your friends you will get out of this mess asap and deal with the consequences
2007-02-02 06:48:45 · answer #8 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to seek professional counseling. You know this is wrong, and you know you need to stop.
Get the help you need because you know you want the help.
2007-02-02 06:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break up with the guy so that you are free to sleep with whomever you choose.
2007-02-02 06:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by ticktock 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋