I know this is wrong.. but I don't want to tell. PLEASE HELP!?

Question

There is a 21 year old at my church. She is pretty and educated and is really nice. She is kinda like the youth group leader there. Well, theres this guy that goes and hes the preachers son... and I found out that she has been sending naked pictures to him!! and he is 16 and she is 21. I am 100% positive this is true and I asked him about it and he said " yeah it's true, but don't tell anybody." Well you know, I just had to tell my best friend that goes to our church also, so I wrote her a note and I changed pants and threw the pants in the washer and my mom found the note and yeahh lets just say she knows all about it. She says she has to tell. I mean when I think about it, she is 21 and he's 16 and that's illegal and I know that if she were a guy and he were a girl things would be a whole lot worse. but her grandpa and grandma have been going there for like 40 years and her mom and dad do too, and they are really respected there. I don't want to break the church up. what do I do?

Answer 1

You JUST HAD TO tell your best friend? No,no,no. With something like this, either you tell NOBODY, or you tell EVERYONE.

As for the act itself-

Forget grandma, grandpa, mom and dad, and being respected. THAT DOESN'T MAKE IT OK.

When women molest young boys, society has turned a blind eye. Problem is the attitudes the young boys develop. They then grow up, and think it's OK to molest young girls. "Hey, I had sex at 13- so can she!"

The conspiracy of silence is the greatest weapon a child molester has. Don't be part of the conspiracy. TALK NOW.