my husand is weird. when i wasnt working he was never happy. we have lots of money so its not that. but now that i am going to school and working he has more time with out me. now he has been super super happy and bubbily and he has been acting different and looking at me different. in the past he cheated on me. thats why i stopped working. i couldnt trust him. now i am starting to be independent again he is acting weird again. his ego is up the roof. i feel like he is cheating again. he is acting weird and feels really good about himself. he has been taking back to me to and before he never did that. telling me to behave and telling me what to do. he has no reason to tell me to behave.he acting like he could care less about me but then he says he want to stay do you think hes cheating on me again now that i am out of his hair. i told him i wont have a family under these circumstances
2007-02-02 06:34:41 · 12 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you feel this way and he has cheated before i would not have kids with him . Take it from me having a family does not fix anything it just makes things much harder
2007-02-02 06:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by cj 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most notable the word LOVE never mentioned. Doesn't sound like you have a proper marriage. Read your own words " He has been talking back to me and before he never did that. Telling me to behave and telling me what do do?" What's this to do with marriage? You come over like a control freak was he never supposed to disagree with you before? He comes over like a dictator. Why are the two of you still together? The trusting of him and having a family is a not the issue. Split up why you got together beats me.
2007-02-02 19:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be interested in starting a family with this fool, because he betrayed you and your trust by cheating on you! Worst of all, he has the nerve to feel insecure about you because he would've felt the same way if the tables have been turned! Your husband does not care about you, he doesn't respect you, and he doesn't love you! You need to let him go and move on with your life and you shouldn't settle for this kind of crap! You deserve to be treated with respect and you deserve so much better! Good luck to you!
2007-02-02 14:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to trust your instincts on this one.
Just by reading your post, I can tell that you're really uncomfortable with this situation. Don't start a family in a situation where you feel uncomfortable because once you have children, there will be no easy way to remove him from your life. Why put yourself in that situation when you can still find someone that you can trust and with whom you would feel comfortable starting a family?
2007-02-02 16:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by ms_lain_iwakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if he's cheating, but it doesn't sound lke a very healthy relationship. i'd say get out of it while things are still simple, and find someone you can trust to have a family with.
2007-02-02 15:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this person is appropriate to love. He is not stable...he wants to tell you but more himself that even when you are successfull..he is a man and he can cheat you.
This is not fair according to me.
But the decision is yours.
take care!
2007-02-02 17:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by Aquamarine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is acting very strange i think too so talk to him about it and see what he says...your both adults right? Adults should be able to sit down and have a decent conversation with each other.
2007-02-02 14:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you before and let him get away with it.. You say he is happier now then ever which means he is probably nicer to you and you say you are never home.
(BY YOUR OWN CHOICE SINCE YOU DON'T NEED THE MONEY)
Soi what are you crying about?? Find yourself a guy and shut up and be happy. Crying gets you no were.
2007-02-02 14:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you need to ask you kinow the answer. If you are that bothered call it a day and find someone you trust.
2007-02-02 14:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it does sound a little strange, but it it difficult for any of us to judge not knowing him. My advise would be to keep a close eye on him.
:-)
2007-02-02 14:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋