Ok so here is my problem. I started dating my recent boyfriend 5 months ago and the first 3 months of the relationship were OUT OF THIS WORLD. Honestly, I had never been happier.
About a year and a half ago I got out of an extremely emotionally abusive relationship and have found out that I still have feelings for my asshole ex. Whenever my ex is around my heart beats a thousand miles a minute only because I think that our entire relationship was infatuation.
Now, I still want to stay with my curreent boyfriend but I feel as though my feelings are stronger for the jerk rather than for my nice boyfriend. I dont know what to do. Once the infatuation wore off on my current relationship I started feeling this way! How do I get over my ex and continue my life with my current boyfriend?
There is no reason why I should be doubting this relationship so much how can I STOP?!?!?!
2007-02-02 06:32:06 · 1 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The key here is understanding that you're recovering from trauma and that you need quite of a bit of introspection to ensure that you're now dealing with your emotions in a rational way. Take the time to write down all of the good points about your current relationship. This should help you focus.
2007-02-04 21:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋