Ok well he likes me "supposedly" a lot .. but unlike other guys he doesnt really wanna have interestin conversations w/me.we only text and its just small talk.. and I feel kinda bad b/c he is always inviting me to do different things.. && i am so busy or things just come up and I cant [at least not too often] hang with him. & one more thing.. lol im not really interested in him. like evryone tells me hes a nice guy. but eh. hes just "alrite" to me... ;/ How should I deal with him? I dont want to blow him off or be mean but i dont relaly think i want to go out with him..
2007-02-02 06:38:38 · 16 answers · asked by Chellebelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe because he's being shy and/or you haven't been together much with him, resulting in you guys haven't quite known each others' interest. As you said others think he's a nice guy, If I were you, I would not like to lose a nice guy before I really get to know real him. I will go hanging out with him, give him some more times to reveal himself, and then see if we get along. If not, both will figure out and finally discontinue. If yes, lucky me !! Now, it's your turn !!!
2007-02-02 07:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by GiGi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a nice guy, just let him know that you want to be friends with him and nothing more. Honesty is the best way to go and he has the right to know the truth.
Maybe if he wants to go do something, do it in a group and let him know that it is just as friends and it's not an official date.
2007-02-02 06:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by buckingham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be fair, you wouldn't want someone to hurt you. Tell him "I love that we can be friends, and I would hate for us to not be but I am not interested in being more then friends. I just don't feel chemistry between us, and I shouldn't have to look that hard for it" Then make plans to do something with a group of people but include him so he knows you want to be frineds
2007-02-02 06:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing in life is honesty. If your not interested in him you should let him know in a nice way. Or, maybe if you have some single lady friends you could introduce him to them. But, if you don't tell him soon he could develop feelings for you and his feelings could get hurt.
2007-02-02 06:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by mrsdeanslist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. If you keep hanging with him, he is going to get attached. Tell him that you "just wanna be friends". Don't piss him off, just let him down gently. Heck, tell him that you are seeing somebody, if he asks who, just tell him that you are not interested in him that way, YOU JUST WANNA BE FRIENDS.
2007-02-02 06:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, don't lead him on to save his feelings. I have made this mistake in the past and it only gets worse the longer it goes on. If it's not there, it's not there.
2007-02-02 06:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by uuummk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time? Sympathy dates are humiliating to both of you. Let him know you're only interested in being friends.
2007-02-02 06:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does like you but he just doesnt want you to react badly to how he feels but just be friends just casual hang out dont go out so you can see how he really is but its not like an akward date
2007-02-02 06:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be frank to him, at least he won't keep holding on to false hope. This will not waste each other time.
2007-02-02 06:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋