Now, that I've changed my life, it seems I only get asked out by guys that party. Then it's like they don't know where to invite me since I no longer party. I just need to be patient I know, but I'm just curious.
2007-02-02 06:18:48 · 16 answers · asked by Green Eyes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No thanks Jizzmopper...
2007-02-02 06:36:38 · update #1
well I'm a Christian... and I know that guys find that intimidating sometimes... coz they seem to think that we expect them to be perfect... but Christian Guys can also be difficult coz some groups are intent that they will only date the girl they are going to marry... so they are afraid to get close... it sucks. I've never been asked out... and I think that I am an open-minded person who doesn't judge.And I know how to have lots of raucous (sober) fun...I'm attractive and intelligent... so don't know what the issue is.
All I have to say to you, is that if you are now a Christian... be wary of falling for a non-Christian Guy... they are great to be friends with, but you can't always help them to change, and you don't want to be in a position where your heart is with a guy who will never share your faith... and that's no way to be in a strong relationship... rather wait until they are willing to go to church and are changing themselves... because you don't want them to have to be dependent on you for their faith... it can be a bit of a bugger I know, but I've seen it happen to too many friends... its not worth it "do not be unevenly yoked".
Have fun, be yourself, and carry on growing in your walk and you will find someone who does fit in with you and your beliefs... without your having to compromise.
2007-02-02 06:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by tarzanatvw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'm a Christian and I've been in serious relationship with another Christian, and I've also been liked by some non-Christians too, even when they knew I was a Christian.
Just be yourself but have Christlike coundaries. Guys love that.
2007-02-02 14:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Tally(: 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will meet someone eventually. Just got to wait for the right guy to come around. My wife was in the same boat. She was a pretty strict Christian and used to be asked out by all the wrong type of guys (according to her). She married me so I guess she felt that I had the qualities/morals that she was looking for.
2007-02-02 14:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tedo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, christian life is not boring so u should party but the right way n with the right people. and patients is really important so pray for patients..
2007-02-02 14:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by angel_ashbal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Christian guys do. Those other guys now see you as a challange. They think they can make you want to go back to your pre Christian ways. nothing more.
you will find a nice guy at church one day. when you do, grab on tight.
2007-02-02 14:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, I am a Christina guy. I have never dated. I would date you. I have never dated in my life. I have been trying to find a Christian to date, but it's so hard to find one.
2007-02-02 14:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can party and be a Christian.
2007-02-02 14:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Immortal Cordova 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will always want what you cannot have( human nature).You are thier opposite so they desire you.You can go to parties and have fun just remember what you are and what you are allowed to do.
2007-02-02 14:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi,
i to think that guys go for christian girls because their are about four five guys who like me to and i am a christian.
2007-02-02 14:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by nikita r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on your level of christianaty......if you are totally submerged in your religion right now than i say your choice is really narrowed down....most guys won't go out with hardcore religious women......your best bet would be men that are in your church or religion
2007-02-02 14:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by fox mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋