she told me in November that it would never happen again. low and behold 3 weeks later she was with him. every since Christmas she has been lying to me and i found out by one of her guilt ridden friends. i confronted her and come to find out that she was with him yesterday. she claims to not like him it is just that im soooo far away. both her friends and family are now involved with her "sex life" and keepin tabs on her my question is would you take her back. im still in love with this one but i will give her up if i have to...so please could you give me some advice...thanks
2007-02-02 06:24:19 · 15 answers · asked by Jay J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you can leave unscathed right now.Dump her and move on with someone who is loyal to you.Just think of what could have happened like you could have married her then she can take half of everything you own.So feel fortunate that she was just a girlfriend and find yourself a good one.Good Luck
2007-02-02 06:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just LET HER GO. you seriously do NOT want to be with a girl who is NOT serious about you in any way. Life is too short to be with a girl who can't stay true & faithful to you & then give this excuse of you being "too far away" to compromise her wrong doing towards you. Your love for her is just going to cloud your judgement. The pain is on you if you take her back but don't expect her to be faithful as long as you are "far away". It's best to find another girl who can be honest with you & your relationship, yet someone who will love, respect & support you through your endeavors in the Military.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-02 06:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand most military men would like to have someone to hang onto back home, and when stationed overseas for long periods at a time it is difficult to maintain dating relationships, I would dump her. As she isn't being fair to you. You can always find people to chat with online if you get lonely, you can email me any time if you 'd like. I'm always up for making new friends. Take care, and stay safe
2007-02-02 07:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This only works depending on how long ago you, yourself have been with her. Tell her you just got back word from the medic that you have an "unknown" rash and that she needs to get herself checked. It always helps to freak her *** out before you throw her cheating ho-bag *** to the dogs. Your "so far away" she could at least respect the fact that you have no choice to be there and keep her damn legs closed or get a damn vibrator! Get rid of her nasty ***.
2007-02-02 06:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by zunyone1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're able to desire to artwork in your self self belief. curiously you think of you're no longer worth of being real and dependable to. given which you have allowed this. she would be waiting to maintain on doing it. you're displaying her returned and returned that she will do it and it is generally basically superb. And which includes your extra info plainly like there is an risk you will tell her as quickly as returned that its ok and she or he will shop on being a ****. She doesnt comprehend you, doesnt think of very lots of you. Its those different adult men shes getting butterflies for. She is familiar with of you desire her greater beneficial than she desires you, and thats why you enable her do it. yet its no longer the certainty. You dont desire her in any respect. yet its basically like those women human beings that enable a guy beat her for 5 years,.....we are able to waste alot of time typing all of it out to you, yet your going to do besides the fact that. You wont study until YOU study. And there ya have it.
2016-11-02 03:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lsn the problem is that ppl.,wen u give them the complete trust and u give them a second chance, ofcourse they will hurt you in anyway possible. now if i was in your place i would really leave her,coz she isnt trustworthy and doesnt deserve such a loyal bf.(sorry but thats my opinion after all).
tc so much and take a dicision before its too late.
2007-02-02 06:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't cheated?If you are in love with someone you don't cheat.It's time to move on who knows who'll you'll meet.Women LOVE a man in a uniform especially a faithful one.
2007-02-02 06:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd have sex with her one more time then i'd dump that rotten crotched biatch so fast it would make her head spin. No swabby deserves this kinda treatment. That's what i did when i caught my biatch sleepin around while i was at sea.
2007-02-02 06:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why put up with a cheater? Life is too short, find some good girl who is willing to wait for you.
2007-02-02 06:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by velvet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would bang the hell out of her one more time, make it dirty and treat her like a slu.t. make it where she likes it and don't be rude. then after you drop a load on her face look at her and tell her to get out. dump her right on the spot. you know you can never trust this girl, she is your regular dime store hooker. i have alot of respect for you, your helping protect this country and this girl is out banging whoever. so screw her and get this tramp out of your life.
2007-02-02 06:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by bone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋