Im a sophmore in highschool, and dont really have alot of success with girls. Im friends with many but can't seem t date or hook up with any of them. Latley I had my eye on this one girl that is a freshman. All i really wanna know is how to get her attention. I dont really need help getting her to like me, cuz its too early for that. All I wanna know is how to actually start hanging out with this girl. BTW imma shy guy soo thats why im not a real mac daddy with the girls.
2007-02-02 06:11:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think anyone can tell you what to do to make a girl like you. If she likes you then she does, if not then to bad go find some other girl to look at
2007-02-02 06:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is find something that you might have in common and join any clubs or groups that you would have a chance to get to speak with her and get to know her better.
Or if you see her struggling with a large load of books or something ask her in a very casual manner (like not a big deal, you're asking because if your Mom found out you weren't being a gentleman she'd kick your butt) if she needs any help; if she says no, don't take it personal at all; because some people are just blindly stubborn (like me).
You don't have to be a "mac daddy" to get the girl young man; just be yourself and if you click you click with her.
You will have to make the effort to get into her head though. Go slowly.
2007-02-02 06:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by rla26368 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i feel for you buddy, i have been in the same situation. come to find out that its not being a mac daddy, its about being you and not giving a **** what girls think. sounds wierd huh? well it works. just try this, when you pass her in the hall, just look her in the eye and say hey. you dont have to say anything else, just walk away. she is going to talk to her friends about you and just keep saying hi until you notice her getting a little shy. then you know she likes you. then all you have to do is say hey, we should all get together and go to a movie or somethin. keep it really casuall and relaxed. tell her to bring a friend and you do the same. look good, but dont try to hard. let her pay for her ticket and during the movie, share something with her like milk duds or something. offer them to her and no one else unless they ask. do little stuff like that. only once in a while though. then your in. dude, if you think you can do it, then you can. if you think you can not do this then you cant. either way your right. have confidence buddy, you will have no problem.
good luck, but you dont need it,
adam
2007-02-02 06:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone like you but you can make friends with her like you did with your other friends. If she digs you great, but if she doesn't, it's not the end of the world. You're young, threre will be loads of girls in the future. It's when you stop looking for a girl that they all seem to get interested.
2007-02-02 06:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by jezza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright Soph.. I think that you are looking into this wayy too much. As far as I'm concerned I'm baffled that you'd want to spend this much time trying to get her attention, rather than just walking up to her, introducing yourself and going from there. This isn't really a movie synopsis where you need to go ahead and make a huge deal over it. If you really want a girl to like you, you BE yourself. Maybe grab a soda you've noticed she likes and tell her you got her one and would like to get to know her...something like that.. Be spontaneous but don't look too eager to please. You get me? You sound like a decent guy, now go out and get this girl. No need to make a huge impression. Or say something sweet to her, like.."You look extremely pretty today. I like that shirt on you, I'm [insert name here]." and WALK away.. they like that. Hopefully that helps!
2007-02-02 06:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by campisi05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off stop using phrases like "real mac daddy". Second, why don't you try saying hello. Talk to her friends, become friends with them. Start randomly talking to her one day and see what she does. If it were me and I were single, even if I didn't like you I would talk to you so I'm sure she'd return the favor as long as she isn't a jerk. Good luck hon!
2007-02-02 06:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm. Do you have any friends that are close to her? If so you could get one of your friends to introduce you. I was very shy in high school, but since then i've realized that women respond well to confidence. I know its easier said that done but try just be confident and be yourself.
2007-02-02 06:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by kingjustinpants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem! Just find out what extracurricular activities she enjoys and be there. That way, you'll get a chance to get to know each other without pressure or awkwardness!
2007-02-02 06:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the way she may react if you say her hello. Find something in common and start a conversation, nothing special, just to make you feel confident. Be yourself.
2007-02-02 06:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by gery_encycle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show her your cock- that will get her attention. If she likes what she sees, she might wanna keep you around. But at least then you know one way or the other.
Oh and if she likes the steak, show her the potatoes too.
2007-02-02 06:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by Gostenhauser5 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋