Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

ok so my bf called me today and said that he got his report card back and his dad isnt happy and is grounding him for atleast 2 weeks and took his car away and his phone and like internet etc.. cause he has to get good grades this term and he said he wont be able to see me and we should just take a break?

what does this mean?? at first im like ok and then i called him bacdk and im like is this just an excuse to break up with me?
and hes like no its not just i wont be able to see you anymore and i think its the best idea for now
and i said i dont care if i dont see you i just rather be with you
and he seems to want to stay on abreak
and i said is it because you want to see other girls
and he said NO.. and even if it was i wouldnt be able to im grounded
and idkkk what should i think/do about this situation?? weve been going out for about a month now

do you think hes lying? or like idk pleasejust some advice would be nice ill give points :yay :)

2007-01-31 15:00:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 15:00:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok first of all today is my 30th birthday, I really don't expect anything from anyone but when you have been living with someone for 6 years and on you birthday he dosen't say anything, Not once today did he say happy birthday, yes he knew it was my b-day so there is no excuse he could use for that. How should I feel or what should I say or do? personaly I'm hurt but I don't know what to do. Please someone help.

2007-01-31 15:00:22 · 3 answers · asked by nicky 4 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is always really greatful for the things I buy her, lately she been smoking or hanging with her brother and his friends all night.. which does bother me, but I can't nag at her about it all the time, Im not the center of the universe.. however I do not know. I called her up to tell her ( I just couldn't hold it in anymore) That someone wants to sell me their Ipod Mini, and it just happen to be her favorite color, green. So I am picking it up tomorrow. So I tell her this and that it is early Valentines present. She just say oh ok.. thats pretty cool. then says she got to go. :/ Why fuct am I feeling all gloomy??

2007-01-31 15:00:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this girl but shes kinda out of my league i dont know how to make her liek me. and i think she might how can i tell?

2007-01-31 14:59:39 · 2 answers · asked by Ben W 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 (male). There are a few girls (one or two in particular) that i am "friends" with but never really talk to. Some of them are in one or two of my classes. My question is, how do you just start conversation with people who are already in their little "clicks" and who u never really talk to much?

We talked more a year or two ago, but not as much now. Any suggestions?

2007-01-31 14:59:31 · 1 answers · asked by c90 4 in Singles & Dating

i wanted to ask a girl out for valentine but i wanna do it in a way such that she cant refuse.....ne ideas.....

2007-01-31 14:59:28 · 14 answers · asked by J D 1 in Singles & Dating

He's higly addicted to pain killers and vidacons, he's a heavy drinker and abuses his girlfriend, he recently pushed her down the stairs for her taking these away from him, I love his girlfriend and I know she likes me but I want to help my friend should I call 911?

2007-01-31 14:59:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Idk what to do about it. All the time I get caught between giving it up and keeping it. How do I get over this??

2007-01-31 14:58:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

WHY IN THE HELL IS NOTHING BEING DONE ABOUT ELDERLY ABUSE IN THESE "F*CKING HELL HOLES" THAT GET PAID TO (PROTECT,PROVIDE,CARE,FEED,LOVE,BATHE,EXERCISE,TALK TO,PLAY GAMES WITH,TELL STORIES TO AND BE TREATED LIKE HUMAN BEINGS(CUZ THEY ARE, AND BEAUTIFUL ONES AT THAT.)WHY IN GODS NAME ARE THESE PEOPLE THAT ARE OLD AND SICK, SAD AND LONELY, FRIGHTENED AND SCARED, JUST LEFT THERE TO DIE,CUZ NOBODY WANTS THEM! AND THEN GET ABUSED TOO! FOR GOD-SAKE THIS SHOULD NEVER, EVER HAPPEN TO THESE PEOPLE! WHO ARE MOTHERS, FATHERS, SISTERS AND BROTHERS, AUNTS,UNCLES AND MOST OF ALL GODS CHILDREN! FOR GOD-SAKE THEY DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE A "PRECIOUS GEM" INSTEAD OF A PILE OF SH*T! I CAN'T UNDERSTAND HOW THIS WORLD CAN BE SO CRUEL IN LETTING THIS HAPPEN TO THEM, AND KNOW ABOUT IT FOR THAT MATTER! IT IS BAD ENOUGH WHEN FAMILIES JUST THROW AWAY THEIR LOVED ONES, AS IF THEY WERE GARBAGE! HOW DARE THIS HAPPEN! AND HOW DARE IT TO CONTINUE TO HAPPEN! WOULDN'T YOU AGREE?................(to be continued) ?

2007-01-31 14:57:56 · 12 answers · asked by ghostguff3 2 in Family

Can someone get it if the wife doesn't want it? They haven't been together for 3 years. Anyone here ever filed for one? What does it do for you? Especially if she is still living in the house with you and your parents (though you are not in same room and had no relationship at all for 3 years)? Can it help in a divorce or to protect the man from false accusations?

2007-01-31 14:57:48 · 6 answers · asked by Jazmin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 14:56:53 · 13 answers · asked by denise w 1 in Singles & Dating

I came across the idea of using crushed glass instead of sand during my wedding ceremony. I guess it is the same thing as a sand ceremony but just glass. It looks really good but the colors are very limited. Anyone know where I can look? I would like to do white and pale pink... but I am open to others.

2007-01-31 14:55:50 · 3 answers · asked by boringgirl07 2 in Weddings

2007-01-31 14:55:18 · 6 answers · asked by rach 2 in Singles & Dating

About Window XP Service Pack 2?
Since I installed Window XP Service Pack 2 from microsoft.com, it seems to slow down my DSL internet connection & sometimes freezed. I don't think it was virus or spyware problems because I scanned my computer and no viruses or spywares were found. Or perhaps there were, but my internet sercurity software couldn't detect(by the way, my internet sercurity software was up to date).

Does anyone know exactly what cause the slow-down internet speed?

Should I uninstall service pack 2 & reinstall service pack 1?

2007-01-31 14:54:45 · 5 answers · asked by Infinite 4 in Singles & Dating

When I got married I didn't have a wedding but now I really want one do you think that I should spend all that money on a wedding or put it towards the dream house that I always wanted.

2007-01-31 14:54:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-31 14:54:29 · 4 answers · asked by Karen wants to know 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a writer and I need help for a new story involving some kind of animal. It has to be extremely large due to mutations, lethal, and scary. However, I want it to be unoriginalso no snakes, bats, spiders, etc. And it has to be on land. Help?

2007-01-31 14:54:10 · 6 answers · asked by brokendreamboi 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I heard my girlfriend rip one when I was getting out of the shower and I'm pretty sure she didn't think I heard it. I got to thinking, "I don't think we've reached that point yet." So generally speaking, what's a good time frame?

2007-01-31 14:54:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you kiss a girl that has braces & u accidently touch braces with your lips?

2007-01-31 14:54:09 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 14:53:51 · 22 answers · asked by seaofcolour 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a bf that I love very much and that I wouldn't give up for anything.We were best friends for 1 yr before we started going out and now we've been together for 3 months.This one guy that was in a play with me [he played my husband] became my friend and now I talk to him like everyday.We don't hang out or anything but when I see him, we talk and stuff.He's met my bf but I'm not sure if he actually knows we're together.Here's why. Yesterday I was outside his classroom which is right next to mine and I just had said bye to my bf. We were talking and this girl came out and asked him if I was his girlfriend and before I could even say anything he said "Yeah, we're going out" And I looked at her with a "Don't believe him look" And she just kept talking as if he was serious.We are NOT going out. lol.and after that the girl just left and I had to go to my class. And in the play we were in, I dropped out and he got mad cause he didn't get to kiss me.Does he like me?Should I try to find out

2007-01-31 14:53:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well this girl really likes me right now, but doesn't share the same feelings at the moment... I kinda feel bad for asking this question but I need help on how I can tell her I would only like to be seen as a friend...

I don't want to hinder her self esteem cause i already know that feeling... what's the best way to do this... I'm pretty sure one of us will end up bein hurt...,

2007-01-31 14:52:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my gf wants me to smell her feet. i have been saying no but the other night finally agreed. she put her nylon soles on my face and they smelled so bad. i did not like it but she likes guys who are submissive to her(she smothered her feet over my face for close to an hour). I feel now she thinks i will smell them everyday. how can i tell her i dont want to smell her feet.

2007-01-31 14:52:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She secretly got compromising pics of me off of my friends cellphone (my friend was authorized to have them...she was not!) Sent them to her cellphone and emailed and pix messaged them to other people I know! I need a way to get back that won't come back on me. As you can tell, she is a very spiteful *****. Sad part is...i hardly know her...and the had never done anything to her. I need ideas.

2007-01-31 14:52:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys what are u interested in a girl? what attracts u, be honest!
thx

2007-01-31 14:50:12 · 3 answers · asked by iloveyou<3 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi. A friend of mine is getting married soon, and I've been helping her look for rings. She does not want a diamond because of all the diamond wars and stuff in Africa. So, she wants an Aquamarine or other light blue stone. Does anyone know where I can find a Round cut, silver or white gold band, Aquamarine ring? I've looked around a lot, but with no luck. Thanks!

2007-01-31 14:50:03 · 13 answers · asked by H M 2 in Weddings

my aunt is on drugs and I think she buys drugs for her daughter and her daughters friends, I think going to jail might help, am i wrong for thinking this?

2007-01-31 14:50:00 · 29 answers · asked by Castro 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is the real love because i think i have it .

2007-01-31 14:49:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are going to be 7 years old. Their mom is looking into this program that costs 125 each child. That's the first problem. According to the custody arrangements.. we had to move into her school district and she was to pay for all the medical things. He's too chicken to tell her that this problem would fall under medical and she would have to pay for it all. How do I get him to get some balls, he needs to tell her no, after all we had to relocate! Second problem is that the program requires the kids to be woken up 4 times during the night. That means walking, talking, concious awakeness. My husband works nights so that responsibility falls on my shoulders and I happened to be blessed with a sleep disorder myself. I have to take medicine sleep and if I wake up at all during the night I can't get back to sleep. How do I tell my husband that it's asking a lot from me? I have nothing to do with this decision but I'll be the one suffering. I love the boys but I feel selfish.

2007-01-31 14:49:24 · 4 answers · asked by Sparkee 2 in Family