2007-01-31 14:54:29 · 4 answers · asked by Karen wants to know 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Karen. When a spouse cheats, its usually because the person they are cheating with gives them something their mate doesn't. It's not always sex. It can be affection, admiration, respect, and those qualities usually lead to sex. I'm not a man, but my husband has been unfaithful and I believe it was that way. I asked my boss why he spends so much time at work and doesn't go home to his wife. He replied, "Because here I'm successful." This doesn't mean it's your fault. NOT AT ALL. What I'm trying to say is that not all men are scum that are just looking for sex. Many fall for a woman who fills some of these emotional voids he has and it usually culminates through sexual gratification. There are other factors such as maturity, self-respect, family values, and morals. Those are part of the formula. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-31 15:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me i'm a guy and i feel so bad when one of my fellow guys fall for another women when thay have a perfect loveing g/f or wife at home and yet they throw it all away for a simple pleasure at lust that can be given to us my or loving g/f or wife.
2007-01-31 23:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For men it's all about what's hangs below their belt.
2007-01-31 22:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex.
2007-01-31 23:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋