ok so my bf called me today and said that he got his report card back and his dad isnt happy and is grounding him for atleast 2 weeks and took his car away and his phone and like internet etc.. cause he has to get good grades this term and he said he wont be able to see me and we should just take a break?
what does this mean?? at first im like ok and then i called him bacdk and im like is this just an excuse to break up with me?
and hes like no its not just i wont be able to see you anymore and i think its the best idea for now
and i said i dont care if i dont see you i just rather be with you
and he seems to want to stay on abreak
and i said is it because you want to see other girls
and he said NO.. and even if it was i wouldnt be able to im grounded
and idkkk what should i think/do about this situation?? weve been going out for about a month now
do you think hes lying? or like idk pleasejust some advice would be nice ill give points :yay :)
2007-01-31 15:00:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think whether he's lying or not, a "break" means to break up entirely. If he's not able to date, but you are, then by letting you go... he is being a martyr. (not a good thing) Martyrs sacrifice themselves for others to have better opportunities. He's telling you it's okay to go date other guys. He's practically MAKING you do it. So, give him his wish. Grieve his loss for a few days or weeks or hours... then start telling guys... "sure, I'll go on a date with you... I'm SINGLE!"
(I never knew a teenager that was in love LET HIS PARENTS dictate to him about his friends or girlfriends. Parents should know that the "forbidden" card doesn't work with teenagers.) Translation: He might be lying to you.
2007-01-31 15:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to say. I see your position on it. I also see his.
Maybe he got in alot of trouble and is just trying to lie low for right now until it blows over.
A month seems like a long time when you are young, but as you get older you will find you are better able to figure stuff like this out.
(you think a month is long - try breaking up from a three year relationship - no fun!)
The best advice I can give you right now is to be patient, and to wait and see. Its only two weeks and then you will know for sure, right?
2007-01-31 15:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Rainbowzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is telling the truth... but is kind of using it as an excuse to break up also. Try again later whenever he is available and not grounded and see how things work out. but stay available for awhile so that he knows you arent going anywhere just yet... but dont seem TOO available so he knows that you arent going anywhere period bc then he will use you.
2007-01-31 15:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to concentrate on getting his grades back up and you should let him. School should come first. It's only 2 weeks and it's not like you've been together for years. You should use this time to concentrate on your school work too. Just my opinion. Good luck.
2007-01-31 15:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he is breking up with you.. He just want some time alone studying for his term so he can get better grades.. Better grades means happy parents.. Happy parents means more freedom to go out and enjoy with his girl..
2007-01-31 15:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by -K3llY- 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm, if he dodges you in school then he's trying to break it off. Good luck if that's the case; I'm sure you could find better.
2007-01-31 15:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by Suze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants some time to think or space...dont bug him about it...just let him do what he needs!!!!
If he really likes you...he will be back!!!
Good luck!♥
2007-01-31 15:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by Dance♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl. Go to bed!
2007-01-31 15:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by redgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i htink he is telling the truth although you never know with guys sometimes they can be jerks and some times they can be as sweet as honey
2007-01-31 15:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by Helena White 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hard to Tell, but your going to have to respect his wishes.
2007-01-31 15:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋