My girlfriend is always really greatful for the things I buy her, lately she been smoking or hanging with her brother and his friends all night.. which does bother me, but I can't nag at her about it all the time, Im not the center of the universe.. however I do not know. I called her up to tell her ( I just couldn't hold it in anymore) That someone wants to sell me their Ipod Mini, and it just happen to be her favorite color, green. So I am picking it up tomorrow. So I tell her this and that it is early Valentines present. She just say oh ok.. thats pretty cool. then says she got to go. :/ Why fuct am I feeling all gloomy??
2007-01-31 15:00:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After reading this question, I went back through your other girlfriend/relationship questions too. I hate to say this, but I wonder if the feelings you have towards your gf are much stronger than the feelings she has for you, I could be totally wrong, but it sounds similar to something I've seen before. It seems like you are putting out a lot of effort, maybe too much for this girl/relationship? Depending on your age, & her feelings, your serious feelings might be scaring her off. Maybe try talking to her & asking her what she wants out of your relationship ... what are her true feelings towards you ... does she feel like she wants to slow down or back off the relationship a bit? If she is bipolar, there are meds she should be on so that being bipolar shouldn't be a problem in your relationship. There is a guy that my daughter knows, and he gets SO serious very early in a relationship, that it quickly scares girls away (giving expensive gifts too early in a relationship can sometimes worry a girl if she feels things are going too fast or becoming more serious than she is ready for).
Hope this helps and that things work out. Relationships take work (from both sides), but maybe there's someone else out there that you are supposed to meet. I believe there is a reason that each person comes into your life, though, sometimes it's to help you grow.
2007-02-01 03:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
b/c she's not giving u attention n rather b with other people than u. find out if she's seeing 1 of her brother's friends or finds them interesting
2007-01-31 23:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by rko3943 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she didn't get excited, she was short with you, and apparently she had something more important/interesting to do. ask and see what's up with her, b/c you might want to hang on to that ipod...
2007-01-31 23:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's because your not getting enough attention from your girlfriend
2007-01-31 23:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋