Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

how many of you come from divorced parents?

2007-01-31 14:28:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

on time so i could keep my good credit since it is in my name and i can't afford to pay the bill..he thinks that i am bitching at him but i'm not.i called him today he won't even answer the phone and i left a message.i had someone else call from my phone and leave a message and he returned her call.i told him i would have it turned off if he made 1 more late payment and he trys to make me feel bad saying that was his chistmas present to his dad. what should i do?

2007-01-31 14:27:18 · 11 answers · asked by justme 1 in Family

my husband seems to have his time of the month. I think men are just as emotional as women- they just don't want to admit it! I am tired of it when he gets mad it's for good reasons but when I am having a hard time it's because I'm experiencing high hormone levels! Somebody please invent some Man-idol!

2007-01-31 14:27:04 · 9 answers · asked by meaty_okra 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He's sweet and kind. He would pretty much do anything to make me happy.

2007-01-31 14:27:04 · 9 answers · asked by rach 2 in Singles & Dating

What could it mean when you haven't seen your ex-boyfriend in ONE YEAR and he calls you to go see a movie with him? My ex did that to me, I went, then he drove me home after the movie. I asked him why he wanted to see me after all this time & he said "just to see u, I wanna see u every once in awhile". What does it mean? HE was the one who dumped me a year ago & we didn't date that long. We also never had sex cuz I'm saving myself. Will he ask me to hangout again? He hasn't contacted me that much after out meetup so why not? He's 26, I'm 21. What is he up to?

2007-01-31 14:26:55 · 17 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf is hardly ever in the mood to "do stuff" with me. He never comes on to me. I asked him if he thought I was ugly, and he said no.....he just doesn't get in the mood that often.
I, on the other hand, only get in the mood at around 3 in the morning.....while he's asleep. So I wake him up, (almost every other night), so I can give oral (because I enjoy giving), and he goes back to sleep. He told me, that he finds this annoying, because he's tired and wants to sleep. If I didn't wake him up, we wouldn't have a sex-life!
My view, is that he's lucky to get any at all. Is he wrong for saying that? Do I deserve better?

2007-01-31 14:24:43 · 15 answers · asked by Abby C 5 in Singles & Dating

i can sense chemistry between us, but i don't know if she does. I've told her before that i like her but she told me she doesn't see me as a boyfriend. But for the past couple of months we've become closer friends. and my feelings for her have come up again. The only reason i'm excitd to go to school is to see her and talk to her. SHe's the only reason i look forward for the next day. I get upset when i see her with that other guy. I wanna let all my feeling come out but i'm afraid she'll say no and we won't be friends. WHAT DO I DO??? Please someone help me. Give me advice. please.

2007-01-31 14:24:28 · 2 answers · asked by j0j092 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy dated me for a week and broke things off but said he had such an awesome time with me. Now I notice him staring at me sometimes when I look up out of nowhere. It's been a month but I can't resist because he is so cute. Could this be telling me that he still likes me if he is staring at me?

2007-01-31 14:24:25 · 2 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend for 7 years. We were close. Her uncle threw her out of the house and she had no other family. I gave her shelter and food, paid for her bills while she was depressed, and when she got better, I gave her a job at my office temporarily even during a rough time financially. I never charged her rent, food, bought her new clothes and paid her a good wage much to my fiance disagreement about hiring her. A year later, I was going through a rough time with my fiance. We had arguments often at home. I crashed physically and emotionally for 3 months and couldn't work. Then when I came back to work, she started to resent me. I was told that she wanted to have a share of a project my fiance got going at work. My fiance and I got married. She told my mother that I force him to marry me for the money (he is totally in debt). She didn't go to my wedding, moved out when I wasn't home and stole the files at my office. We had never argued. I am confused? What happened

2007-01-31 14:24:00 · 4 answers · asked by no where 1 in Friends

Not the dictionary definition. Your own personal definition of when a line is crossed from one to the other.
I've been called both, but no one can explain to me why...

2007-01-31 14:23:56 · 13 answers · asked by AgentZero 4 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and he really likes me and he asked me 4 a bj but i dont kno if i should or not!!!!! part of me wants to but the other part says no!!!! im just really stressed!!!!

2007-01-31 14:23:50 · 20 answers · asked by luv_life90813 1 in Singles & Dating

...date is so you can find someone to spend the rest of your life with, for sex/to brag to your friends, or something else? (Married people can answer this as well.)

2007-01-31 14:23:34 · 2 answers · asked by Tee99 2 in Singles & Dating

So a girl that I totally whole heartedly wanna be with wanted to see what would happen she wanted to "kiss me to see if there was anything"

She initiated it when we both were drunk and we ended up getting in a drunken argument the day before she left for vegas.

She hasnt txt'd me or returned any txt's or returned any calls, but the fight was just a bogus drunk argument.

She comes back this weekend, I dont know if this is it or what I should do.

Ladies any input??? What would you do if a u and a guy and you both were super close friends(trust, respect, open about anything) would you expect the guy to talk to you when you got back?

2007-01-31 14:22:37 · 4 answers · asked by hopelessly_stuck_22 1 in Singles & Dating

best answer goes to the most complete answer ;)

2007-01-31 14:22:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like a girl and she does not notice me what do i do

2007-01-31 14:22:08 · 5 answers · asked by pupchow96 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

help. i need a boyfriend. what do i do

2007-01-31 14:21:32 · 18 answers · asked by brebre 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 7 years coming up in March. For the past month or so he has changed so much. Today he told me he talked to one of his Marines and they suggested maybe he's going through the 7 year itch, he thinks he may be. This is my first time hearing of this. My husband is a big fisher and he's been going nearly everyday, occasionally he'll take the kids, but mostly he just goes with his friends. He has mixed his priorities all up. Fishing has come before everything including his children. He says he is just trying to show me he can do whatever he wants whenever he wants, which hello, any of us can, the wiser ones choose not to. It is like he is rebelling against our marriage, I don't get it. Has anyone gone through this themselves or with a spouse? I have not changed, I am not controlling, I don't get it. I just want my husband to spend time with me & our kids.

2007-01-31 14:21:17 · 18 answers · asked by Happy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and music?

2007-01-31 14:20:04 · 5 answers · asked by deathstar11223 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 14:19:52 · 7 answers · asked by greedygirl 2 in Weddings

Here's the thing. I'm 18 and just started the second semester of my college freshman year. There's this beautiful and smart girl in my English class I'm interested in. The problem is that she and I are so different. These are some differences. While I listen to hip-hop and r&b most of the time, she listens to electronica and some rock. I'm a very regimented person while she's somewhat relaxed. She's sort of "bad" girl who smokes cigarettes while I'm a naive dude who is afraid to do things like that. I'm willing to understand her better if I happen to date her. I'm actually so attracted to her because she's so different. However, I've always been told that commonality is very important when it comes to relationships; I've been told that the lack of commonality never leads to a serious relationship. So I'm worried. I am very attracted to the girl and hoping that I get a chance. By the way, I'm not even sure if she's willing to date anyone. Can two vastly different ppl become a couple?

2007-01-31 14:18:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am really curious to find out how different girls define it

2007-01-31 14:18:08 · 15 answers · asked by girol 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married over 25 yrs. My husband is working out of town for over a year and is under alot of job pressures. During the last year or so, he has been treating me poorly; picking fights, criticizing me, making up things to fight with me about, and basically comes home to do his laundry and things he wants to do. Two 1/2 weeks ago, I requested that he take enough clothes with him and not come home until he was ready to be decent towards me, and participate in our household and marriage as an equal. I have not heard from him since. How long should I wait until I start preparing myself for him not ever coming back?

2007-01-31 14:17:45 · 18 answers · asked by mary s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 14:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you allow a head strong toddler to run onto a busy street? Or to crawl into the new infant's crib; they already said, they hated the new baby. The new proposed bill in California would side with these minors. Chances are they are still wearing diapers. A correctional swat would make more noise than pain; although, maybe, feelings would be hurt. My neice lost her almost 3 year old, when he ran into the street and was hit by a motorcycle. She was screaming for him to come back. The plug was pulled on his great-grandmother's 80th birthday. His older brother turned 5 the Thursday before.

2007-01-31 14:17:14 · 17 answers · asked by My Shoes 1 in Family

That i can get called shallow for not dating someone shorter than me (5'9) Its just a preference i have, its like guys who love to date short girls....I just can't date anyone shorter than me...so how can you call me shallow?

2007-01-31 14:16:52 · 19 answers · asked by Lauren_Ann20 5 in Singles & Dating

okay everyone says the reason guys are obessed about sex is because of hormones, well im a teenage girl and well i have raging hormones too, and im not obessed about sex. so what makes guys different?

2007-01-31 14:15:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get it on with a hot older woman that craves a 23 year old black male in Houston or surrounding areas it there a FREE website or something that can assist me with this???

2007-01-31 14:14:52 · 1 answers · asked by Ready 2 Start Doping 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been with my guy for 8 months but i'm just getting really bored i don't think he's the right guy for me.
what should i tell him?
i know i should be honest but that's a hard thing for me to do i still want to be friends.i just want to let him down easily and not be too mean.

2007-01-31 14:14:25 · 9 answers · asked by Annette A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 14:14:19 · 17 answers · asked by bc_gal14 1 in Weddings

me husband tolded me today that he mom n dad comeing nexxt weekends for hes birthday partie!!!!!!!!! they not like me 2 much nor me kidds!!!!! they makes funned of me in past!!! i starts freakin outs today when i leant of this!!!!! i thinks of dressin good n kiking me kidds out of the housed whiles they there!!!! they calls me unhelthy,,,,,,,me thinks of smokeing ultra lites 2 show them i now helthy,,,,,,i mite have to sneek out of housed while they there n lite upp me malboro reds..but i wants to makes good impresion!!!! what dose u think????

2007-01-31 14:14:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce