Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

My gf and I got in an argument about trust. She's mad because she feels like when people are dating each other, they should automatically trust each other. But I think trust is something that takes time to grow. She knows that i don't trust her when she's with other guys because i'm afraid that she might cheat on me.

Who's wrong?

2007-01-31 14:13:55 · 8 answers · asked by unknown 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 14:13:43 · 2 answers · asked by Jerson J 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok last yr in late january 1 night when hubby went down to the local store phone rang it was a girl she ask if ronny was home and when i said no who is this she hung up on me immediately..Well for a few months i questioned him about this and he said many many times he didnt know anything about it..Been happily married 16 yrs to this wonderful man and i know he would never cheat or give another girl his number..It was just a weird call..About 3 or 4 months after the call 1 night he said "im all yours you have nothing to worry about' and i said what do u think i would be worry about and he said i dont know..the next day i ask him what made him say that to me the night before and he said.." u was worried about that phone call and i told u i know/knew nothing about it(cant exactly remember what word he used)That kinda made me suspicious as to why he said that to me BUT my mom says he was just trying to reassure me by saying that..I totally believe him about him not knowing about the call.

2007-01-31 14:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by gina l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 14:13:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'd like lots of answers and lots of different opinions. okay.

so, i've been dating this boy for a while now, almost a year.
we're seniors in high school. things are pretty good. i'm just you know, a teenage girl and i get very emotional sometimes. but i don't know if i'm just overreacting on this or if it's something to really be concerned about.

but okay, he always gives these girls that live near him a ride home. like... ALWAYS. and it just bothers me. because he's a basketball player... they're pretty, popular cheerleaders. and like, tonight he said he'd come over after he went out to eat with "friends" but instead he had to give "them" a ride home (the girls) this happens a lot. he won't spend time with me because he has to give one of them a ride home.

it's not that i'm the really jealous type.. i'm not.
it just hurts my feelings a little.

tell me what i should do.. i'm just lost at what to do about this. i dont want to be a psycho girlfirend.. haha

2007-01-31 14:13:27 · 11 answers · asked by justbreathe 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 14:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my girlfriend and i are hanging out, but i dont know like what to do. This might sound stupid but w/e. I am just worried that if she comes over to my house than i dont want her to be bored as hell like watching movies n ****. So what should we do?

2007-01-31 14:12:24 · 1 answers · asked by Kyle M 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok last yr in late january 1 night when hubby went down to the local store phone rang it was a girl she ask if ronny was home and when i said no who is this she hung up on me immediately..Well for a few months i questioned him about this and he said many many times he didnt know anything about it..Been happily married 16 yrs to this wonderful man and i know he would never cheat or give another girl his number..It was just a weird call..About 3 or 4 months after the call 1 night he said "im all yours you have nothing to worry about' and i said what do u think i would be worry about and he said i dont know..the next day i ask him what made him say that to me the night before and he said.." u was worried about that phone call and i told u i know/knew nothing about it(cant exactly remember what word he used)That kinda made me suspicious as to why he said that to me BUT my mom says he was just trying to reassure me by saying that..Any thoughts on this.

2007-01-31 14:12:01 · 8 answers · asked by gina l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My uncle is a massage therapist teacher & we're friends, he's 29 & I'm 20. We also hang out w/ some of his students. I've had a crush on one of his students, Perry. We flirted but that's it. One night at a party, we were alone outside talking about some deep stuff, like about his complicated family (we had been drinking). Then he just started saying how my uncle would kick his a**. I of course asked what he meant & then he kissed me. I felt fire works. We didn't really talk about what happened that night. He was already planning on moving 3 hours away and the next week, he moved. That was a little over a year ago and I have never forgotten this. We haven't talked since that night. I figured it was just a fluke, but I can't get it out of my mind. I was looking around on MySpace & found his page. He still keeps in contact with my uncle but I never talk to him. I was wondering how I should send him a message. He doesn't have a pic on myspace so it might sound a little stalkish.Any adivce?

2007-01-31 14:12:00 · 9 answers · asked by Carrie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 14 years to a passive agressive man. I became disabled during the marriage, I used to work all of my life. I have severe spinal disease, so i will be on disability, FOR THE Rest of my life but it isnt enough to pay all the bills and rent. My husband changed since my diagnosis and he wants out. If we divorce will i be entitled to alimony? I live in Texas. And I was an excellent wife, I treated him like a freakin king and now I can barley take care of myself, he was used to me catering to his every need. But thats life. I guess i am useless to him now. I will give him a divorce I certainly wouldnt want him to stay with me out of pity. But I need to live somewhere too. and he makes preety decent money and his mom left him a home that is already paid off. Please help me with any useful answers. i need all the help i can get THANK YOU

2007-01-31 14:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by foxtrot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you think?

2007-01-31 14:10:40 · 12 answers · asked by marisa d 2 in Singles & Dating

I am about 6 ft tall and slender built. I keep my head shaved because "I" feel it looks better but I aint quite sure what women prefer. I could use some "mature" input. Thanks :-)

2007-01-31 14:10:34 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my girlfriend early november because she was acting suspecious. I traveled overseas for the holiday to attend a marriage I just came back in january and hit her up on myspace just to see how her new year went but only to find out that she was pregnant and didn't know how to tell me because she had alot going on with her. She did get kicked out of her house so it was ruff for her. But the worst part is she had a abortion without telling me. (untill now) Now i feel that I made a big mistake I don't know what to do yall. I'm tring to forget her but i really loved her we were engaged. I keep thinking if she would of told me instead of me thinking she was creeping around we will still be together.she doesn't have a phone. I tried talking to her on myspace but she's not responding to my messages. Should I just give up? somebody pray for me please. What should I do send more messages? I don't know where she works or where she lives. Whats next?

2007-01-31 14:09:52 · 6 answers · asked by Ineedhelp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was at my ex g.f house about a month ago, and she got drunk and she started telling me that she loves me and she always loved me
so i didnt take her serious, bcz she was drunk, so we got in a fight and she told me she ment every word she said that night even tho she was drunk
so we got into another fight. and we started talking last week on wednesday
so on friday she invited me to her friends house
we talked and she was like well i miss you and we just talked about the past
so today i get on aim and she tells me this story of a guy killing himself bcz he got a girl pregnat
soi was like i got a story to tell u
so she was like ok go ahead, so i was like there is this kid at my school and he likes this girl they broke up about 7 months ago, and he wants her back but does not know what she wants so then she types "mabye the girls is confused and scared mabye she wants to look around and not to miss out on anything".... I want her back but I dont know what to do

2007-01-31 14:09:08 · 10 answers · asked by ♠DistaUkr♠ 2 in Singles & Dating

i like seriously love this girl but i cant tell if she likes me or not, how do i get her to try to go out with me

2007-01-31 14:09:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

myspace.
One of my old friends (I have had a fight--never really been friends, but we don't hate each other...but she has stab my back before) She had put my boyfriend on her top 8-even though they are not really good friends before..,,should I be worried or is this just normal?

2007-01-31 14:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by myself 2 in Singles & Dating

is there such a thing as being "happy" and in love? because i've never experienced that feeling........

2007-01-31 14:08:32 · 20 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

First of all, I really don't want to break the friendship, my friend is a really good person and we've been insperable since third grade. Well this kind of happened after I left her house early, we're neighbors and well, I was at her house and I felt sick, and I was also really bored. So my brother was there too, hes 11 months younger than me and my friend has a brother his age so they're best friends too. He wasn't going to sleep over because he was really tired. Well when I was at her house, it kinda showed that I was really bored, but I tried not to show it. [Pst I'm really bad at acting.] So I left when my brother left, saying that I didn't feel good, which WAS true. But we don't go to the same school, she goes to private school, and I've had a fever like the whole week, and yes, this has been going ON for a week. I guess she just thought I left because I was bored, she never answers me online, txt, phone, nothing. I know shes there, because she always changes her AIM profile like every two seconds. Anyways, I'm getting really upset over this, and she won't respond to ANYTHING.

Thank you! [And no rude answers, please.]
I appreciate the effort.(:
&♥; s a r a h

2007-01-31 14:08:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well there's this boy I like at school and he has a crush on me but I'm also scared if he'll ask me out he's really cute and funny. But anyways what are signs that I'm in love and how are some ways to get to know him better?

2007-01-31 14:08:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend and i have been going out for a few months now and we love each alot and have so much when were together,but lately alot of the time we've been getting bored.Theres not we can do because we live 45 minutes out of our city so we cant always be driving into town because of gas and money and all we do at home is watch movies,play monopoly,play video games and not much more.
Anybody got any suggestions on what we could do?

2007-01-31 14:07:22 · 15 answers · asked by rileysgirl4ever 1 in Family

i feel like him and i are drifting farther and farther apart. He has been hanging up the phone on me quite frequently b/c he gets upset because he feels like he's not worthy to be with me. he also tells me that i should go find someone else who's better. i've gotten the feeling that he doesnt love me anymore and have asked him. he says he still loves me and wouldnt know what to do if i wasnt in his life.

i just dont know what to do. i still love him. but i think that he's hinting to me that he doesnt love me back. hes not the same person i fell in love with.

he has been going through a heavy depression and i feel bad b/c i cant see him when he needs me most. he lives an hour away from me and will be having surgery within the next week. if i was to dump him when would be the best time? before or after the surgery? i kind of feel like im just running away from all these diffuculties and i dont want to leave and then regret my decision for a long time after. i need help please.

2007-01-31 14:05:47 · 12 answers · asked by shippos_grl 2 in Singles & Dating

what feature is most important in a guy??
it could be anything..physical or emotional..like his eyes or that he's pollite...

2007-01-31 14:05:27 · 11 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

Sex question? Ok I have been doing great in the bed, within 5 mins or sooner I get her to climax.

2007-01-31 14:05:12 · 2 answers · asked by SMD 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 14:05:08 · 2 answers · asked by >() 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are in the midst of divorcing and trying to get along. One night we have it out and I say somethings and he gets on his knees and cries, mind you this is nothing new. I'm at the point where I'm just so tired of arguing at this point, it doesn't even make sense, he never listened to me before and doesn't now so I'd rather just not argue. The following day he puts a tape recorder in our car and hears a conversation I have w/ my best friend about the night before and I tell her about him crying and on his knees and the whole thing. He feels I betrayed him by telling her and I don't because best friends are there to be your soundinig board to let you vent to calm you crack jokes and make light of a bad situation when needed. Your opinion on this would be great, thx.

2007-01-31 14:04:31 · 17 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I do not want children, and neither does my husband at this point in our lives. Is that wrong? When people get to know me and find that out about me I get a lot of horrible looks and glares. It's a personal opinion right? I don't disrespect anyone who has kids, they have to raise them, that's their choice to have a family with children, not mine, so that's ok with me. What do you think?

2007-01-31 14:04:29 · 26 answers · asked by SadToday22 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok im 17 years old going on my second baby she is due in late may or early june.....me and my soon to be husband cant decide if we should still go to prom and now that im pregnant AGAIN i cant possibly fit into my dream dress although i would love to i mean i dont regret being pregnant i just really wanted prom night to be special....but in a way i guess it will be.....cause i will get to spend it with the love of my life and my baby gets to be there during every minute of it......i dont doubt one bit that my kids are anything but blessings i just really really want to go .....so what should i do???

2007-01-31 14:04:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl that i for a long time now and a her hair is natuarly a dirty blode color. Because of this since I first met her she has always died her hair more blonde. At least up until a couple of weeks ago when she died it brown. The color looks natural and everything and its not that it looks bad its just that when it was blonde she had sort of a drop dead appeal to her that isnt there as much now that it is brown.
How do I tell her that I like her hair better blonde. Im not trying to make a big dea out of it, but i know that in a few weeks she will have to go get it died again one way or the other. Im think she likes the brown better becasue of all the compliments she has gotten for it. (compliments from other girls of course who would never say it looked bad even if it was pink)

2007-01-31 14:03:56 · 3 answers · asked by bd189ezy 2 in Singles & Dating

no response

2007-01-31 14:03:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you don't mind giving me some ideas for what I should get my bf for Valentine's Day I would really appreciate it. And a few details: I haven't kissed him yet, we've been dating for about 4 months now, we're both 13, and I really love him and care about him a lot. Thanks!!!!!

2007-01-31 14:02:33 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating