is there such a thing as being "happy" and in love? because i've never experienced that feeling........
2007-01-31 14:08:32 · 20 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some people aren't truly happy in love, they are afraid of committing themselves to one person for any length of time. Being afraid of being hurt is a large reason to not be happy in love. Others are happy only when they are in love, primarily because they aren't hapy out of love. Maybe you're not happy in love?
2007-02-01 16:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by question_troller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts because it meens a lot to u. And yes there is such thing as being happy when in love. That only happens when you feel secure in your relationship.
2007-01-31 22:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by blah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you have to be happy in your own life. No one else can make you happy. So thinking that you are going to be in bliss 24/7 just because you are in love in not correct. If you are happy spending time with the other person because they care about you and you enjoy spending time with them then that's great. If you never experienced being happy and in love then maybe you are not happy inside yourself or maybe the people you have been with are not the right ones for you.
2007-01-31 22:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by kws504 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes. that feeling is as real as you and me- it is just more difficult for some people to find then others. Someday you will meet a special someone, and will just know that you are happily in love. If you are with somebody right now, and you are not happy- then stop being with that person. There is at least one person out there for everyone that will make them happy
2007-01-31 22:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by chris_m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there is, but it has only lasted when I am with the guy I'm in love with. After that I just wish I had never met him. It sucks. THe only time you're happy and in love is when you like really really old and have been married for 50+ years. That is my conclusion
2007-01-31 22:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by *♥Jinx♥* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be so complicating first of all.. If you are looking for love usually it is hard to find just relax and maybe try to change a few of your personality traits..Maybe try being happy first and before you know there it comes the love...
2007-01-31 22:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by alyssa w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* well it just seems like you havent found true love yet just keep searching there is true love somewhere for everyone...and love hurts so bad because its real thats what the body has to offer and anyone can easily wound it but love always exists it never stops unlike pain and anger ...you dont need money you can be happy with anyone its just finding that special person...
2007-01-31 22:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by xX-steve-o-Xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your emotions and feelings are attached and when something goes wrong, you get hurt... unfortunatley most people are more concerned with themselves than other people, and sometimes one person just doesnt feel the same as the other... and if you have never experienced happiness in a realationship, then you have just been with the wrong people
2007-01-31 23:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u are inluv then ur are happy when u are heartbroken then ur sad as simple as that . being inluv 2 someone is such a good and nice feeling i ever had.
it keeps me alive and make you reach ur goal.bein inluv makes ur world full of happines and aspiration
2007-01-31 22:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by franchiska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the secret of love is to always let the other person love you but never let that little piece of you be given to them..always keep back that little shred of who you are ..I swear ..really if you give everything you will always be hurt so make a habit never do that
2007-02-01 02:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋