I broke up with my girlfriend early november because she was acting suspecious. I traveled overseas for the holiday to attend a marriage I just came back in january and hit her up on myspace just to see how her new year went but only to find out that she was pregnant and didn't know how to tell me because she had alot going on with her. She did get kicked out of her house so it was ruff for her. But the worst part is she had a abortion without telling me. (untill now) Now i feel that I made a big mistake I don't know what to do yall. I'm tring to forget her but i really loved her we were engaged. I keep thinking if she would of told me instead of me thinking she was creeping around we will still be together.she doesn't have a phone. I tried talking to her on myspace but she's not responding to my messages. Should I just give up? somebody pray for me please. What should I do send more messages? I don't know where she works or where she lives. Whats next?
2007-01-31 14:09:52 · 6 answers · asked by Ineedhelp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
l really feel for you but feel it is a bit unfair of you to call her a murderer. You said yourself she was going through a tough time and perhaps she could not bare the thought of bringing a child in to her terrible world on her own. There is not much you can do if you don't know where she is working or living. If she is not even answering your messages l guess it is just a waiting game now. You have done all you can, now you just have to wait and see if she will get in touch with you. Best of luck
2007-01-31 14:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can keep trying if you want but she will not answer you until she is ready. you need to be prepared for that. Also, did you think of asking her why she was acting so "creepy" before you broke up with her. a women's body and emotions change when you get pregnant, so there is no telling what was going through her mind. i believe that you also need time to heal from this revelation, so take some time to come to terms with the information you have found out and then send her a message.
2007-01-31 22:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will NEVER work.
You dont know where she lives or works (and she got pregnant but did not bother to tell you any of THAT information, who knows if she was really ever pregnant.
Since you think of her as a murderer, why would you want her back anyway.
Maybe your prayers were answered when you asked to have 'the real person' revealed to you.
SOmeone who loved you would not do that without talking to you first
2007-01-31 22:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by lisa s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should keep trying your best. There is no harm in trying you know. And if faith brings you two together, then things will work out well for you. So, i think you should try to be patient enough,be cause you never can tell, things can work out the way you dont expect it to.
2007-01-31 22:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by f_i_f_o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she got kicked out of her place then what makes you think that she even has a place to connect her computer to the internet at and talk to you on myspace
you didn't love her thats why you dumped her
2007-01-31 23:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a flippin pair of nuts man. Forget her she old dirty news. Go on with out her.
2007-01-31 22:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Life lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋