Ok last yr in late january 1 night when hubby went down to the local store phone rang it was a girl she ask if ronny was home and when i said no who is this she hung up on me immediately..Well for a few months i questioned him about this and he said many many times he didnt know anything about it..Been happily married 16 yrs to this wonderful man and i know he would never cheat or give another girl his number..It was just a weird call..About 3 or 4 months after the call 1 night he said "im all yours you have nothing to worry about' and i said what do u think i would be worry about and he said i dont know..the next day i ask him what made him say that to me the night before and he said.." u was worried about that phone call and i told u i know/knew nothing about it(cant exactly remember what word he used)That kinda made me suspicious as to why he said that to me BUT my mom says he was just trying to reassure me by saying that..I totally believe him about him not knowing about the call.
2007-01-31 14:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by gina l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well it wasnt totally out of the blue i had been questioning for months
2007-01-31 14:28:24 · update #1
Like i said this wasnt totally out of the blue what he said i had been questioning him for months about this
2007-01-31 14:32:50 · update #2
I wouldnt believe him. Come on some girl calls and asks for him by name and then months later he brings it up outta the blue? Somthing is definatly up.
2007-01-31 14:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know but I have a hard time with it I would start to check throw his things they useally forget some thing some were walet draws pockets all those places and may be dial STAR 69 on the pone that tells you the last number that called you .you might be able to find out who it is by your phone company that way after you get the number ok GOOD LUCK .
2007-01-31 14:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are wicked women who would actually do something like that to start trouble. They thrive in it. As long as you know he isnt cheating or hasnt cheated then I wouldnt worry about it.
Just let it lie until something else comes up that can add to it. I dont think you have enough to actually be able to question his fidelity.
Sounds like your marriage is strong and he worries that you would think something that isnt true. Believe him and trust him until he gives you reason not to.
That phone call isnt enough to not trust him. Like i said, it could have been a trouble maker. He could very well not have known anything about it.
Keep your faith in him.....you have a long history and I doubt he will mess it up after this long.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-31 14:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds suspicious to me, you wouldn't say out of the blue that he has nothing to worry about, thats a given, after 16 years.. unless something is going on and it ended, and NOW there isn't anything to worry about. Delayed reaction, I doubt it....
2007-01-31 14:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dannielle T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom may be right, but that is weird for him to say that months later.
I say let it go to a certain extent.. youve been happily married for 16 years and you have no proof to think anything else, just keep your eyes open.
2007-01-31 14:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Christines256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who cheat needs to lie to cover up.
2007-02-01 00:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let it go. Freaky things happen sometimes. I think you are dwelling on it and causing him to feel like reassuring you by your insecurities.
2007-01-31 14:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating and the guilt is getting to him.
check him out.
2007-01-31 14:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Life lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋