I have been dating this girl that i for a long time now and a her hair is natuarly a dirty blode color. Because of this since I first met her she has always died her hair more blonde. At least up until a couple of weeks ago when she died it brown. The color looks natural and everything and its not that it looks bad its just that when it was blonde she had sort of a drop dead appeal to her that isnt there as much now that it is brown.
How do I tell her that I like her hair better blonde. Im not trying to make a big dea out of it, but i know that in a few weeks she will have to go get it died again one way or the other. Im think she likes the brown better becasue of all the compliments she has gotten for it. (compliments from other girls of course who would never say it looked bad even if it was pink)
2007-01-31 14:03:56 · 3 answers · asked by bd189ezy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...and im not shallow
its not like this is something that bugs me all the time
its just that i was looking through some pics us recently and she looked incredibly hot blonde
not that she still doesnt look beautiful to me now just i think she was drop dead gorgueos when she was blonde
trust me if looks were all i was about i wouldnt have dated her for the past 11 months
2007-01-31 14:15:41 · update #1
I don't agree with others.. it sounds good to the ear but in reality is that looks are the first thing that attracts you to a person...
Believe it or not us girls are very open to suggestions about our hair colors and style.. most women are actually always worried that their man may not like the changes they've made to their looks...
LOL... true, girls unless they are REALLY REALLY close friends always complement each other... sometimes they even do that out of jealousy believe it or not! so their friend doesn't look as good as they do!
As you say it's not a big deal, good thing you've seen her blond and know what you like.. give her some time and let her enjoy the brunette look for a while, and as the weather warms up towards spring tell her that as much as you like her brown hair, now that summer is coming you miss her blond hair and if is there any chance she'd do you a favor and dye her hair blond again?
Easy as that and TRUST me, she won't mind it at all...
I had the opposite thing happen to me... my BF loves brunettes and after 6 months of going out I went blond! It look really good on me and I got tons and tons of complements... after a few months I wenk dark again because 1) women like change, we get tired of the same look easily, 2) I wanted to make my bf happy! I never got offended by his request.
2007-01-31 14:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your shallow saying she is better looking when it was blonde...
2007-01-31 22:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
her look should not be the thing that grabs your attention.
2007-01-31 22:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋