i really really like this girl but she has a boyfriend. I can sense chemistry between us. What do i do?

Question

i can sense chemistry between us, but i don't know if she does. I've told her before that i like her but she told me she doesn't see me as a boyfriend. But for the past couple of months we've become closer friends. and my feelings for her have come up again. The only reason i'm excitd to go to school is to see her and talk to her. SHe's the only reason i look forward for the next day. I get upset when i see her with that other guy. I wanna let all my feeling come out but i'm afraid she'll say no and we won't be friends. WHAT DO I DO??? Please someone help me. Give me advice. please.

Answer 1

play it cool for a while as her friend, but let her know that you like her by doing lil things like carrying her book and callin her often. oh and you can make that other boy jealous by poping up when ever he's for " friend stuff". it'll tick him off and when he gets mad it'll make him look like a fool to her. trust me it'll work.

Answer 2

That's tough.

I remember when this amazing guy is present, I smile a lot; he's gettin close, I'm quite; he's quiet, I'm nervous and end up chatting till I drop; and I admire watching him from far away.

Now I only remember all the sweet little things he did for me. And all I know is when I'm down I wish I could turn to him. When I'm happy I wish he's next to me so we can share the joy.

Idk, I admire him being around but at times I don't want to move too fast. I like having him next to me but I'm scared of liking him so much it'll crush my heart.

I never did anything to express my feelings and even though I like him so much I can't tell him and would much rather hide (so look for signs!)If she likes you she's happy your around.

So, my advice is give her some time, be there for her when she needs you the most (breakup, graduation, etc.) and I don't know about her but if she likes you she better not be this way and tell you! Or as hard as it is : move on. While you know you'll always like her try to have some fun! She might like you she just doesn't know it yet so it might take awhile. The good news is you can always be her friend.