me husband tolded me today that he mom n dad comeing nexxt weekends for hes birthday partie!!!!!!!!! they not like me 2 much nor me kidds!!!!! they makes funned of me in past!!! i starts freakin outs today when i leant of this!!!!! i thinks of dressin good n kiking me kidds out of the housed whiles they there!!!! they calls me unhelthy,,,,,,,me thinks of smokeing ultra lites 2 show them i now helthy,,,,,,i mite have to sneek out of housed while they there n lite upp me malboro reds..but i wants to makes good impresion!!!! what dose u think????
2007-01-31 14:14:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You dont need to impress them. Who cares, he is married to you now they need to live with it. Smoke whatever you want. No cigarette is healthy so who cares. Stay at the house, be the life of the party and enjoy!
2007-01-31 14:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if you live in depression all the time that his parents make fun you in the past and they don't like you now either.
Is obvious that I would not visit your house either because of the way you treat your own self. I would suggest that you accept that you need to correct those areas in your life you know are wrong and unhealthy.
`Make a change in your lifestyle, quit smoking- it is not healthy and you know it- for your health sake.
I wish I could help you more, but you need to do your part.\
Love yourself a little more, and think on your kids a bit more by simply quitting smoking, And think positive, make progress in your life. Your kids want to see a truly happy mom. And your husband want to see a sexy, happy wife too.
Take courage! Do your part! Try to win them to your favor.
2007-01-31 14:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by liz777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk so that they can understand you they mite have a bit more respect for you just remembr that you have kids and you need to teach them how to talk none of this slang why would you kick your kids out i dont get that what has that got to do with anything just remember they are comming to your house and also they are only going off you vibe anyway so if you are talking like that well they are going to pick up on this just try and be your self and do some cooking as she well come and help you its a great ice breaker
2007-01-31 14:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by joel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really had a hard time decoding your comments, but if I correctly understood what you are saying - just don't smoke while they are present, and you can use something like Febreeze to spray your house from nicotene fumes. As far as the kids are concerned, hey, they belong to him too, (biological or not-since you're married) so who cares if they like them or not!
2007-01-31 14:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy them a box of smokes and wrap it up for a valentines day present for them.
Tell them you would like for them to share in your hobbies.
Kicking your kids out of the house is a great idea. Doing so at night would be even better.
Change the locks in case your kids try to get back in. With all of this hospitality, your inlaws are bound to see how much you have changed (for the better) and will welcome you.
p.s. you should make sure you are very vocal when you have sex with their son. Scream and shout (even if you have to fake it) at the top of your lungs so that they know that their son makes you happy!)
2007-01-31 14:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DON'T let them make you feel bad about yourself. Tell your husband to make them behave ,they are jealous of you!!!!! Tell him to sop them making fun of you and to you respect you they are nasty people support your kids no matter what. I think your husband is afraid of them cos your his wife and children he should care for you and your children no matter what especially its YOUR home smoke if you want. Bet they have bad habits. Be confident in yourself and be proud of your children cos you good mum. Tell your husband to take them out for dinner you and children not feeling well. I'm really upset for you. I wish I was there to help you!!!!! God Blessxxxxxxx
2007-01-31 14:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by bubbles1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean your house really good and have them over and be the best hostess you can be to them... Why do you talk this way??? How old are you anyway and why do they not like you if i may ask?
2007-01-31 14:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put up with it for your husband its his parents and his birthday grit your teeth and hope it don't last long
2007-02-04 05:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are gay
2007-01-31 14:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋