i really like this guy and he really likes me and he asked me 4 a bj but i dont kno if i should or not!!!!! part of me wants to but the other part says no!!!! im just really stressed!!!!
2007-01-31 14:23:50 · 20 answers · asked by luv_life90813 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG!@! you should not be stressed over that. I say NO don't do it. Is he your man? Don't sound like it. Girl don't put yourself down like that! Keep your head up and kick his @SS the curb!!! He really doesn't like you if he is asking for that. You sound young too!
2007-01-31 14:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Shorty06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about him, then you should. Its probably the best way to show a man that you like him. Make sure he understands your disposal procedure. If you do not wish to swallow and you prefer to spit, make sure he understands to pull out and point away from you. You could permanently injure your eye and be forced to wear a patch for the rest of your life. If you do swallow, let him know so he can lean back and relax...ahh nothing more satisfying than letting loose!
*This does not, in any way, exempt you from state and federal laws of sodomy. Blow at your own risk. Kushman13 is not liable for any physical or "mental" trauma or injury which might occur from giving a bj.
2007-01-31 14:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by kushman13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't do it, I loved having sex but I would never give a bj until I was with my husband, before we were married but after our child. Then I knew ok this guy really loves and respects me. Most guys, if they are not your man and just ask you for a bj then they don't care too much about you, just getting off. I hope you have enough respect for yourself to find out if he does care about you. Good luck and remember only do it if you will feel comfortable with yourself after.
2007-01-31 14:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by Happy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you have to very intaimate for some thing like that. I don't know what kind of girl you are BUT for me I am not putting my lips on someone like that unless I have gotten to know you and I mean know you. I guess it me but I know I am not gettin anybodies STD's just because I really like a guy. I would front and say that I haven't done it or that I don't do it. I will say I don't suck every body just cause I really like some guy. That's just me.
2007-01-31 14:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by nicetee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on feelings. Noone needs to ask for something when you are in love. If you both are into each other, things would happen and you won't be on yahoo answers. Whereas in this case, you are confused. You know inside your mind that, you do not want to do this. You are not comfortable with it. I tell you what. Say NO to him for that, if he trips over that, then kick his @$$ and leave him cuz he aint worth it. Hope that helps.!
2007-01-31 14:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the part that says no. Don't ever do something because somebody else wants you to(especially a horney guy), only do something if you want to. Don't let yourself be talked into it. You will not feel good about it afterwards.
2007-01-31 14:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT do anything you feel forced or stressed about. He may be getting instant gratification, and you feel like you're being the good girlfriend, but in the end you'll resent it and your relationship will suffer.
When/if you feel gung-ho and ready, then go for it.
Remember, you can always do it, but you can never take it back.
2007-01-31 14:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that doesn't feel right to you. Never do anything you don't particularly want to or don't feel right about doing merely because you feel pressured. Wait until you have no doubts as to whether or not you want to do something. Always respect your own judgment. Whether or not he respects your decisions, you'll get a better idea of whether or not he's worthy of those kinds of "gifts" from you.
2007-01-31 14:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are stressed over nothing girl. It is either you want to or not. Make up your mind. If you do decide to go for it, just make sure that he is clean though.
2007-01-31 14:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by jozzi boy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if that's all he has ask from you. Did you guys even go on a date? What has this world come to? Don't be a whore or ruin your reputation. He most likely isn't worth it.
2007-01-31 14:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by Brina 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋