So a girl that I totally whole heartedly wanna be with wanted to see what would happen she wanted to "kiss me to see if there was anything"
She initiated it when we both were drunk and we ended up getting in a drunken argument the day before she left for vegas.
She hasnt txt'd me or returned any txt's or returned any calls, but the fight was just a bogus drunk argument.
She comes back this weekend, I dont know if this is it or what I should do.
Ladies any input??? What would you do if a u and a guy and you both were super close friends(trust, respect, open about anything) would you expect the guy to talk to you when you got back?
2007-01-31 14:22:37 · 4 answers · asked by hopelessly_stuck_22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me add that she initiated the kiss i didnt even see it coming it wasnt me who initiated it and i wasnt wasted i had 3 beers she was tanked....
2007-01-31 15:06:36 · update #1
uuuur whipped play it cool she is messing with you tell her to kiss "this"
2007-01-31 14:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Todd C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks like a little (or a lot) less alcohol could have sealed the deal for you and her. Now, because of drunken stupidity, (that's the last thing she remembers about you two together) you have a lot of work to do to regain her respect and trust. Try it without the drinks for a while. I'd ask her what she thought the kiss was supposed to mean, and how she felt about it. Tell her how you feel about her, and see if it works. You can always back up a bit and still be friends if you haven't hurt each other's feelings to the point you hate each other.
2007-01-31 22:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was super close to a guy, yes i would expect him to talk to me when i got back, regardless of what happened before i left...now she's had a couple days or so to calm down, so the worst is over with...when you do talk to her i suggest the first words that come out of your mouth are I am so sorry....and next time, if i may make a suggestion...if you really want to be with a girl, try to make a point of not making your first kiss a drunken one, cuz first kisses are one of the most important things in a relationship...
2007-01-31 22:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by fritnit1349 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her that space that she wants. In time things will get better and you guys will work it out. She might just feel stupid about the fight. She will be back
2007-01-31 22:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Brandicandi85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋