Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

2007-01-27 14:16:07 · 14 answers · asked by kei46animax 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright. well i asked this kid that i really liked to semi and he said that he'd love to go. this is the first time im going with a date to a semi, yes i havnt had many boyfriends atleast not around the semi formal dances. and were expected to dance. now i no how to dance and grind and everything, its just the leading up to it. were just going as friends, and i dont want to seem to touchy, and hes not the dancing type. how to i get him to dance with me?

2007-01-27 14:15:28 · 2 answers · asked by MamaMiax3 1 in Singles & Dating

My good friend Kevin is having a problem. He was talking to his best friend Jake on the phone and Jake said Kevin was not his best friend. He said he was his third or fourth best friend. Kevin was very hurt by this since they have known eachother for 4 years and he thought that he was Jake's best friend. Kevin does not want to forget about having Jake as a friend. I dont know what to say to him and i want to make him feel better. Please comment.

2007-01-27 14:14:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's a guy, he's attractive (7.5 out of 10), I've seen him at three places consistently.

Coffee shop/Lounge, there almost every day reading.

Library, always working at the same area in the morning

Games, I see him in the crowd at intramural games sometimes, sitting in the crowding, sometimes reading, sometimes watching

my friends and I are kind of stalking him, should I approach him?

2007-01-27 14:13:59 · 7 answers · asked by someone 1 in Singles & Dating

My father in law lives very near to my house . He is a major alcoholic and has VERY poor hygiene!! I can work all day cleaning my home,or cooking and having it smell nice and clean and the second he walks in the whole house smells like a nasty filthy BAR. He is and was a very nice man when clean and sober but, alcohol has ruined his life he basically lives to drink!! Every penny he has goes to beer and cigarettes.He has gotten where every night around dinner time he shows up and wants to eat because he has spent all of his money on beer!! I am soo sick of it!! My husband will not say a word to him except every once in awhile he tells him he needs a shower!! I do not know what to do I have said things like O.K. THIS IS OLD, but, my father in law does not have enough SNAP to realize he is not wanted here everyday!!! ANY SUGGESTIONS!! We are considering moving not just because of this but, this is one of the reasons!!!

2007-01-27 14:13:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im in seventh grade and im in LOVE with a guy in eighth.He and his gorgeous gf abby dont even act like there going out..but when they do i get so jelous.The guy dosent know who i am..but my friends sometimes go up to him and say "a girl really likes you" but all he says is whatever.How can i get him to notice me?

2007-01-27 14:13:22 · 11 answers · asked by Taylor F 1 in Singles & Dating

I showed interest in a guy, he said we should just be friends because he's not ready for a relationship - and then he started going out with someone new within a week (!)

I found someone new, and we were on the phone (like friends do!) talking about how I could see myself with this guy for the long haul if things work out. He said "So you think he is someone that you could be in for the long haul with?"

Then he was silent for a second and said very un-enthusiasticly "well....that's good, I guess."

Why would he be jealous when he has someone new, who moved in with him after a week? Is it because I took away his option of me? Or did he just not know what to say?

2007-01-27 14:13:10 · 9 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm gonna tell mary I think. She will put em in there place.

2007-01-27 14:12:47 · 6 answers · asked by kurticus1024 7 in Singles & Dating

I know this question kind of insane, because everyone has diiffernt choice of color, but I really wanna know what color a girl like to see in boy's cloths? or Out fit?
Thank You

2007-01-27 14:12:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A couple of years ago we stayed in a Disney hotel. Each room was like a minature apartment. Bedroom, kitchen, dining room, living room, bathroom, and 4 different closets. We rented two rooms, they had ajoining doors so the entire family could go back and forth from room to room.

Afterwards we talked about "winning the lottery" and building a house with these type of bedrooms. Where we could ALL live together under one roof. Have a big main living room, dining room, kitchen so we all could get together, or stay in our individual little apartments to get away from it all.

I think about it from time to time. Hope to win the lottery some day and BUILD such a house.

Would you build a house for your entire family? Or would you take the money and run away?

2007-01-27 14:11:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am so unhappy, no love, no sex, no money.....no nothing...the only thing that keeps the glue there is my beautiful 2yr old son....

2007-01-27 14:10:53 · 28 answers · asked by catherine f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

AND, if so, how often and what happened in case it didn't work out? What did you do? Well, I have been going out in dates with my college classmates and it seems like it might create some problems since they are also my co-workers (closed-net school). There are some guys at my work/school I'm really interested in and they won't ask me out (even though I've given them the "signals"). You think it's because they are afraid of consequences in case it doesn't work out?

My dating pattern: I don't give kisses or have sex w guys that easily. Never sex; kiss, maybe after the 10th date. So, I'm safe there.
Signals: Smiling in class or at meetings. Offering to hang out with them during weekends...

2007-01-27 14:10:45 · 4 answers · asked by soosool 2 in Singles & Dating

6th grader and 9th grader. idk wat to do! they have both asked me out like 10 times and i have said no all the times they have asked me they know i have a boyfriend. I have already tried being mean to them but that doesnt work. the 9th grader texts me all the time saying he wish i would break-up with my bf cause he loves me and that hes better! HELP!!!!

2007-01-27 14:09:44 · 20 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Singles & Dating

There are two boys at my school that I'm friends with, and i like both of them. They both like me as well, and I am completely at a loss at what I should do. One of them is fun and easy going, while the other is quiet and slightly introverted, but is interesting in that mysterious way. I don't know how to choose and I don't want to lead them on at all. How do I know which one I should pick?

2007-01-27 14:09:30 · 10 answers · asked by clairebear 1 in Singles & Dating

We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. I gave this girl this crush note, well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty hazel eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. "If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. "Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it." She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls "If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better." He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days. but I went today.She seem real happy and when she saw me. She didn't talk to me though she use the teacher to get my attention they were right in front of me.Se said to the teacher that she quit her job and she got a new job. Like the teacher really cares right. So I didn't say anything to her I didn't know what to say I just pretended i didn't care either. When she said she quit her job just made me think she doesn't like me. Idk. She seem kinda moody that day I guess cause I didn't talk to her.
I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is "why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him" she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Well I said hey to her at school today and she said you still work at that job and I said "yes" and she said "bless you." And that was it. The reason she said bless me is because she was surprise that I still work there. She didn't like it there and that's why she quit and works with her boyfriend now. My friend told me last week that he saw her with her friends about 2 months ago and he said to her you know my friend likes you know and she saids "I hate him." I told one of her friends that she has a mouth on her and I guess she got mad at me for that. So now whenever she around me she doesn't use foul mouth language and if does she saids sorry. But that was a 2 months ago. It's really hard to talk to her when she's around her friends, cause she acts different around them. This past wednesday she was asking people for gum in class.Everyone said no. Then she ask me and I gave her a piece and she said thank you and I said your welcome. She did that at work too asking for gum when she knew no one else had gum to give her. Anyways in the end she still with the boyfriend. Right now i'm confuse on if she likes me or not?

2007-01-27 14:08:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf said that he would go to united states with me cuz im currently living in another country.. but now he says that he doesnt wanna go he wants to stay and i dunno what to do =S! im not staying cuz i know ill have a better academic future in USA but i dont wanna leave him either =( we have a reeeally good relationship right now ...what do i do o_O ?

2007-01-27 14:07:40 · 4 answers · asked by JeZieL 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this one guy and we're really close friends. but before i met him, he was close friends with this other girl. now that girl and i are best friends and that guy is one of our buddies. he always teases me by saying stuff like ur mean, spoiled, etc. but i always yell stop and he just laughs. he like never teases my best friend and always teases me. and he always finds a way to make me mad and when i do get mad at him or say stop, he just smiles and says i'm just messing with u. does any of this mean he likes me? i'm really worried becuz he's a really good friend and i don't want him to like me more than a friend cuz everything would be awkward. sometimes i believe he doesn't but then he always teases me and never teases my best friend. my friends also think he does like me but i just ignore them cuz i want to believe that he doesn't.

2007-01-27 14:07:23 · 11 answers · asked by Summer l 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean I'm attracted to all types of guys but I really have a thing for geeks and nerds. (more geeks though) Is there anyway to make geeks talk to you? The only guys that will come and talk to me are guys that seem like players. Ahh I really like shy geeks/nerds ^_^ Anyway I just don't know how to attract them, because I'm fairly cute.(or I've been told but those could be lies)

2007-01-27 14:07:13 · 27 answers · asked by Brittany G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend and i are both freshman in high school. well she has been seeing this boy for some time but have only actually been together 4 times (internet dating i believe) well the last time they hung out she gave him oral s*x and they were both completely nude. she was then throwing up a week later and late on her period...she was worried his "love juices" got in her "you know what" so she got scared and thought she was pregnant (i knew she wasnt though because it was only about a week ago this happened and you dont get morning sickness for a while)

she said if she was pregnant though she would keep the kid and i know her mom and she would have thrown her out.

i want to sit down and tell her to starighten out but idk what to say

plus we had an argument a while back and weren't friends for about a year but we're all good now so i don't want to come off as a bi*ch

please help i relle don't want her to screw up her life... what should i say to her?

2007-01-27 14:05:45 · 9 answers · asked by Emilee O 2 in Friends

They are hard to find.

2007-01-27 14:05:35 · 35 answers · asked by ********* 3 in Friends

my boyfriend is cheating on me with another girl he told me her was just friend but i said to friend kiss (french kiss)?

2007-01-27 14:04:52 · 15 answers · asked by cotton_candy_kayla2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I see him all the time and we hang out ALL THE TIME! He always puts his arm around me when we're walking together and he's very touchy with me. But he's always telling me how he likes one of my best friends. And when we talk on the phone, he tells me that he knows she doesn't like him but "there's nobody else to like." Why does he call me, and hug me, and tell me how he's never been kissed before and in the next breath, basically tells me he likes my best friend?

2007-01-27 14:04:46 · 12 answers · asked by DivaHawk 3 in Singles & Dating

Before I get the answers love is not always a cup of roses(none of which I ever have received in the five years with my boyfriend or any flower at that matter) and yes I realize ups and downs and disagreements, but I always dreamed growing up I would find someone that loved me as much as I loved him and would be my Knight in shining armour (ok now you can go throw up), and I am not high maintenance at all except maybe a little emotionally. One of my co-workers is disgusting (though happy for her) listening to her and her boyfriend talk, how happy they sound when they talk. I am considered attractive(or is what I am told and get many compliments) I am a nice girl and don't ask for much, just love is what I want, I'm not materialistic. So why can't I have something like a wonderful, beautiful love in my life???

2007-01-27 14:04:42 · 19 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm with this guy and we're deeply in love but I dont know exactly what this means:

He and I usually sneak into the dark auditorium before school to be alone since we dont have time to outside of that. (I dont know if this makes a difference but he's 17 and I'm 15) He was leaning up against the wall and we were kissing and holding each other and doing other relatively dirty romantic things (But no clothes came off and it was pretty light, nothing orgasmic). I started kissing his neck and his ear and then just let him hold me.

After a few minutes of silence he told me that he had just "Let it go". I asked him what that meant and he said he had just cummed. I reminded him that we hadn't really done anything. He said that he knew. I asked him if it was because I was "really that hot" and he said yes.

What does this mean? Why did he "let it go"? Does he love me that much?

2007-01-27 14:03:47 · 28 answers · asked by Angie 2 in Singles & Dating

well ive been with a girl for almost a year its been on and off she tells me she loves me and all this stuff but when i do something wrong or something she dont like she tells me she dont know if she wants to be with me any more and sometimes its ends up in a break up and she keeps talking to me even tho we are not together and we end up back together again but this time i told her i was tired of her always telling me that she dont know if she wants to b with me anymore after a year its been the same thing i really do love her and i want to b with her but am tired of her always taking me in circles i called it quits and then she told me she still wants to b with me and she still loves me and she wants to keep talking 2 me but if i keep talking 2 her am ganna end up in the same situation and plus she always tells me she dont know about us i mean wtf? i dont get its been a year and she is still the same way am tired of going in circles with her but i lover her i dont know what 2 do help!

2007-01-27 14:03:46 · 1 answers · asked by heyitsminenotouch 1 in Friends

Shouldn't it be from the heart? Not the room to through a bridal shower? The closeness you have. And if you choice not be in the wedding because you were first choosen to be the maid of honor and are being replaced because shower, isn't being no longer friends horrible? How would you feel if you were told to switch to a bride'smaid because of the shower?

2007-01-27 14:03:02 · 13 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Weddings

This guy i have a crush on have heath together and we have to take care of this pack of flour!

2007-01-27 14:02:39 · 15 answers · asked by coolawesomebrainpower 2 in Singles & Dating

Are there any CANADIAN friend finder site???

All the sites Ive seen are to search for people in the USA only.

Would love to know... trying to get back in touch with 2 old friends of mine.

2007-01-27 14:02:28 · 7 answers · asked by tashasw79 2 in Friends

I've been having an affair with a coworker for 11 years. I want him to finally leave his wife and choose me. What is the best way of doing this?

I'd appreciate answers only from women who know what I'm going through....

2007-01-27 14:02:18 · 22 answers · asked by Kady 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 14:01:26 · 7 answers · asked by Mz. L 1 in Singles & Dating