my bf said that he would go to united states with me cuz im currently living in another country.. but now he says that he doesnt wanna go he wants to stay and i dunno what to do =S! im not staying cuz i know ill have a better academic future in USA but i dont wanna leave him either =( we have a reeeally good relationship right now ...what do i do o_O ?
2007-01-27 14:07:40 · 4 answers · asked by JeZieL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask youself this question. Is your future more important or your bf more important?
Let me give you hint: Enrolling in the prestigious university is a one in a life time opportunity, if you miss it, you will regret forever. On the other hand, your bf is still your bf, no committment yet, how can you assure that he will stay with you forever. What if he break up with you two months from now on and at that time you miss your chance to be enroll in the university that you've dreamed of.
It's your future then it's your call, I can't make that decision for you.
I hope you make the right choice.
2007-01-27 14:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always keep in touch. Email, phone, mail. Technology has so many ways now. You could also go and visit him as much as you can. I had a long distance relationship where my boyfriend was 3 hours away. It was very hard. I always thought he would find someone closer or dump me because the distance was too hard on him. Being far away from one another means taking chances and we both did. We kept in touch through phone, email, and letters. We also visited one another. Today, we are married and living where he grew up. You could explain to him that is okay that he doesn't want to go but you still want to have a relationship no matter what it takes. After all, you both love each other. What's it going to hurt to take a chance on a relationship and a new journey? If it doesn't work out, at least you have the memories and new that you tried. Good luck!
2007-01-27 22:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you need to do to get yourself a better life.
He doesn't want to be a part of it.
2007-01-27 22:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and findsome one else. good luck
2007-01-27 22:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋