well ive been with a girl for almost a year its been on and off she tells me she loves me and all this stuff but when i do something wrong or something she dont like she tells me she dont know if she wants to be with me any more and sometimes its ends up in a break up and she keeps talking to me even tho we are not together and we end up back together again but this time i told her i was tired of her always telling me that she dont know if she wants to b with me anymore after a year its been the same thing i really do love her and i want to b with her but am tired of her always taking me in circles i called it quits and then she told me she still wants to b with me and she still loves me and she wants to keep talking 2 me but if i keep talking 2 her am ganna end up in the same situation and plus she always tells me she dont know about us i mean wtf? i dont get its been a year and she is still the same way am tired of going in circles with her but i lover her i dont know what 2 do help!
2007-01-27 14:03:46 · 1 answers · asked by heyitsminenotouch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Time to go for the moon or bust solution.
Really, what you gotta do is plan out and give her one last shot. Be pleasant around her, take her out, and treat her like she's queen of the world. Then, if she ever tells you she's not sure over the next week (yea a whole week; *psst, it's really not that long), then you cut it off.
You could be enjoying yourself so much more with other girls and it seems like she's just as confused as you are. The difference is that your confidence is independent of her but her confidence is dependent upon you. If she feels the need to get away and come back, then you shouldn't have to deal with that. Be her friend, but not her bf. If she gets upset with you, then tell her you gave her a year and you felt it was time to move on.
Best of Luck.
2007-01-31 11:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋