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i am so unhappy, no love, no sex, no money.....no nothing...the only thing that keeps the glue there is my beautiful 2yr old son....

2007-01-27 14:10:53 · 28 answers · asked by catherine f 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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you would in time, and time is what you neecd to get thru this problem. I believe that a man should talke care of his wife financially and emotionally. what you need to do is sit down with him and resolve your differences if you think that would help. your chold needs two parents and the love and support of you both.
but the child doesnt need to see you two not talking or the love isnt fely in your relationship.
remember a chaild can feel the hurt in the house hold.

2007-01-27 15:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by FIREFIGHTER LT 1 · 0 0

Okay...does he have any idea how unhappy you are? Everyone gets married with he best of intentions and all the hope in the world. You have to talk to your hubby openly..tell him whats going on in your head. He probably has no idea whats going on. He's probably pretty content, dinner's on the table, clean underware in the dresser, baby, healthy and growing. I'm sure this all sounds very "Dr. Philish" but communication is key to resolving any relationship problems, whether to stay or go. As for the "will I ever fall in love again, get married " crap...and crap it is...this is the least of your problems. You have a 2yr old child who needs stability in his life..not a Mom worrying about her future love and marriage expectations. That stuff will work itself out...talk to your husband and figure out your present.

2007-01-27 14:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by Heather G 1 · 0 0

I went through the same thing. I wanted to leave for a long time. The thing that really decided it for me was my kids. Granted a broken home can really mess a kid up sometimes, I think it's better for them to see mom happy than to see her unhappy. Children have a way of sensing things, believe me, they can tell when something is wrong, even ata young age. Me personally? I didn't want my children to grow up thinking that is how a marriage is supposed to be. In my case I feel it set a bad example. They were upset for a while...but they are fine now. And even though the oldest is only 11, she has told me that she really loves seeing me happy for a change. And yeah, I found love again. So in my case it was worth it. I hope it all works out for you.

2007-01-27 14:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0 0

Some women have been married 15 times looking for love. Averages say 3 times lucky. I am married 3 times and 3 times lucky is the answer. Your son will feel the love or lack of in your current marriage. Time to move on girl.

2007-01-27 21:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by tanja3703 6 · 0 0

Well speaking from experience, I have 2 ex husbands...and I had 2 daughters when I met my husband...3rd time is a charm for me.
Try to work it out if you can, you say No Love, does that mean he dont love you or you dont love him? Just make sure you try and exhaust all options before ending it...That way later on in life, you can say You tried...
Yes, there is happiness after divorce, and you can get remarried.
I did..My husband married me and I had 2 little girls at the time, and he has loved and accepted them as his own, since there dads have chose not to be in the picture to much...My husband is fabulous...He is My best friend in the world.
Life is to short to live miserable...Do what makes you happy..

2007-01-27 14:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by ~Annette~ 5 · 0 0

First of all yes yes and yes. If you need schooling please look into it. Sex if there isnt any means there isnt any love, and without money that can squeeze out love and sex for sure. But it seems you are not happy with him then once you can stand alone for your son and yourself you will love again. You want to find a working man first of all, and once your child is old enough you should also be self sustaining if you can. Sex is wonderful but I feel self confidence, inner happiness and love if you have all that sex will come as a result of finding a good man.

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2016-05-15 19:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

I really do not know what your future holds for you but i feel that you should really work on your marriage as much as possible before giving up... Seek counseling and help for you and your marriage and talk with your husband and tell him how you are feelling honestly... Why is there no money if i may ask? How are you both living and supporting your son? Why is there no love in your marriage? What has happened here... I need to know more before being able to help you properly.

2007-01-27 14:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0 0

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2016-10-16 05:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by curella 4 · 0 0

So, you've given up? I wish you could have been blessed with a better marriage. You don't want to stay and make it work? Don't you remember how in love your were with HIM? You do NOT want to be a single mom hoping for another guy who may or may not love your son like his dad, your Husband. God bless you. I know you are in pain. Marriage has proven to be sheer pain but some pleasure, too. You are NOT alone.

2007-01-27 14:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by shannonlilia 2 · 0 0

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