There are two boys at my school that I'm friends with, and i like both of them. They both like me as well, and I am completely at a loss at what I should do. One of them is fun and easy going, while the other is quiet and slightly introverted, but is interesting in that mysterious way. I don't know how to choose and I don't want to lead them on at all. How do I know which one I should pick?
2007-01-27 14:09:30 · 10 answers · asked by clairebear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's call the fun and easy going boy #1. Let's call the quiet boy #2.
Which boy do you feel you have a deeper connection with? Your answer is probably the boy who would work out with you more.
Is Boy #1 outgoing and sporty? If he's either, then he MAY be a playuh, or he may be a slight jerk.
Is boy #2 so shy that he doesn't show his feelings or his personality? If so, you probably shouldn't date him, since he would be shy in front of you too all the time no matter what.
If you can't tell now, maybe you should wait for a while to see which boy comes forth and shines more. Which boy seems more special in your eyes. Time will tell, no matter what. When all else fails, time will help.
2007-01-27 14:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That`s easy...neither one. If you don`t know, you`re not ready for either of them. Do they know each other? If they do, and they both like you, that might affect the friendship in a bad way. I`d give it a lot more time and thought, I`m sure that you`ll find that you are more attracted to one than the other. Good Luck
2007-01-27 22:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to follow your heart. In my own relationships I have found through finding my "soul mate" that he completes me. Everyone I am not, he is, and everything he isn't, I am. We are both able to be better people because we learn from eachother and draw from the others strengths. We also fight very little, because there is no personality conflict.
Likely, if you don't make a decision soon, you could lose both of them!
Good Luck!
2007-01-27 22:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by citygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....thats ur decision, but if i were u, id choose the fun easy going guy.i mean the other one seems alittle bit uummmmm... how can i say this...BORING!!!!!!!!! who wants mysterious guys any way? he could be a part time FBI agent and u wouldnt even know!!!!
2007-01-27 22:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by treehill_iz_my_home 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they both sound like interesting guys. but if you can't pick, then it means its not meant to be with either of them, so just let it go, and make sure they figure out that nothings going to happen.
2007-01-27 22:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with both, see which one you like better. If it doesnt work out, its better to be friends than nothing at all.
2007-01-27 22:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by di12381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself which one you like more. You can't like both of them exactly the same.
2007-01-27 22:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not puppies dear! You know what I would do? Go for two more! i love complications, why stop at two? I love men!
2007-01-27 22:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
which one will make you look more popular?...sorry. couldn't resist. Junior high flashback of when people actually some of their decisions like that.
2007-01-27 22:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by zzzzzzzzz27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look deep in your heart and you'll find the answer. good luck
2007-01-27 22:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋