I'm with this guy and we're deeply in love but I dont know exactly what this means:
He and I usually sneak into the dark auditorium before school to be alone since we dont have time to outside of that. (I dont know if this makes a difference but he's 17 and I'm 15) He was leaning up against the wall and we were kissing and holding each other and doing other relatively dirty romantic things (But no clothes came off and it was pretty light, nothing orgasmic). I started kissing his neck and his ear and then just let him hold me.
After a few minutes of silence he told me that he had just "Let it go". I asked him what that meant and he said he had just cummed. I reminded him that we hadn't really done anything. He said that he knew. I asked him if it was because I was "really that hot" and he said yes.
What does this mean? Why did he "let it go"? Does he love me that much?
2007-01-27 14:03:47 · 28 answers · asked by Angie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not bad at all. dont freak out. i mean its a little strange that that happend b4 anything but its not impossible to happen. just let it go
2007-01-27 14:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What women don't understand is a guy can 'let go' when the pressure and tension is too much. He's dying to get into your pants and this was he's way of expression. Does it have anything to do with love...yes and no. You can be the judge of that.
This is was a purely mechanical incident...and typical of a young guy. You might want to wait a while before you get too romantic with him because it doesn't sound like he will last too long...
2007-01-27 14:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because he's a 17 year old boy. They can just "let it go" at the drop of a hat. What it means is that he was physically attracted enough to you for his body to want to continue his lineage with you, if you catch my drift. Remember the scene from American Pie with Jim and the exchange student? Yeah, it can just go off with a thought, touch, visual aid, etc.
It doesn't have anything to do with love. (And that doesn't mean he doesn't love you.) It just happens - most likely several times a day for someone his age.
2007-01-27 14:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by jax 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it’s not that he doesn't love you, but he's young and doesn't have any control. Guys learn to control their orgasms better the older they become (well, most do). It’ll take him a while, but once he’s matured, he’ll become bored enough to control his orgasms for up to 30 minutes. This is especially true for guys that have been dating the same person for more than a week.
When you're young, a slight breeze or an oddly placed gym sock will make you "let it go".
2007-01-27 14:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mouse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you need to hit the books and give up on a young guy...your a young woman at this point and think about your life and get an education not in a dark auditorium
2007-01-27 14:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by sandras77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it only means he got mentally excited enough to come spontaneously.
It can even happen to a teen guy while sitting in class doing nothing, if he hasn;'t had an emmision for a while and the fluid has built up
It can happen in his sleep as well, it is called a wet dream there
2007-01-27 14:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by bob shark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not love, thatwas premature ejaculation, watch out most guys that age only think with their penis, trying to get anything they can anywhere they can. Do not let him use you like this. Have respect for your body and wait couple of years before you start getting serious with someone. You have the rest of your life to have sex, enjoy being young, you do not need to have a child at your age. Respect yourself!
2007-01-27 14:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by lollypopp1963 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Most teenage boys just don't have any self control. That comes from maturity. At your age you really don't know what love is. Soooo, don't let this boy talk you into doing anything you aren't ready for. If he truly loves you he will wait till you are ready and not pressure you. THAT IS TRUE LOVE!!!!!!!
2007-01-27 14:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by gatorsrock2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he love you that much? Probably not. More likely: He's really that horny. Really horny. Remember the scene from American Pie with the virgin and the exchange student? It doesn't take a lot for an inexperience guy to "let it go".
2007-01-27 14:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Quagmire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenage males can *** on a moment's notice, and be ready again in five minutes. Welcome to the world of sex.
He certainly desires you. The relationship of desire to love is very complex and not easily explained in a hundred words or less. There's certainly nothing wrong with what happened.
2007-01-27 14:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not mean he loves you at all, though he might. He just simply got too excited and couldn't help but "let it go". I'd suggest you be very careful any time you are alone with him anywhere - and don't do that any more at school.
2007-01-27 14:11:47 · answer #11 · answered by J T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋