6th grader and 9th grader. idk wat to do! they have both asked me out like 10 times and i have said no all the times they have asked me they know i have a boyfriend. I have already tried being mean to them but that doesnt work. the 9th grader texts me all the time saying he wish i would break-up with my bf cause he loves me and that hes better! HELP!!!!
2007-01-27 14:09:44 · 20 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore his texts or even block his number.
2007-01-27 14:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ben B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well know that you're lucky, and you should just stand up and say something like "Look, I think I need to get a restraining order on you, you are really starting to creep me out and if you can't hear me now I'm pretty sure u will when the cops show up at your door to speak with your mother." Maybe then he will get a clue.
2007-01-27 14:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Floats_Ur_Boat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to ignore them both. Eventually they will either see it's no use, or they will just be burned out from all that text messaging! It's really no use to tell them to stop, that'll just make them think you're playing h2g (when you're not!)
If their harmless actions suddenly turn into stalking or some other form of obsession, you need to do something about it just in case.
2007-01-27 14:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have your boyfriend talk to them or your parents. If they bother you at school tell a teacher or guidance counselor. Sounds crazy but they can help if it really is a problem for you.
2007-01-27 14:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem once, I don't know how old you are though so my technique might not work for you.
Say: I'm really sorry but I'm not ready for a boyfriend yet.
OR
Sorry, but my dad would kill me if I got a boyfriend & we would both be miserable.
2007-01-27 14:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by Talk-A-Holic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems to me like this is a minor form of harrassment, though it is harrassment. Tell an adult you trust, such as your parents, the principal/school counselor, the police, etc. But I would definitely tell their parents.
2007-01-27 14:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by 0dd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell a couseller and then the couseller will talk to them if you dont like them the who cares if you rat them out. or if there harrassing you get a restraining order you do that by calling the cops..... or just get you b.f. to kick his a$$
2007-01-27 14:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by boo_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, talk about someone who can't take a hint!
you should tell him that if he keeps asking you, that's harrassment, and that you'll report him to the police if he keeps harassing you.
you dont actually have to report him. just tell him you're going to, and if he's smart, he'll stop.
he needs to know you are serious.
2007-01-27 14:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by worldpeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STALKERS!! WTH is their problem? Ignore them or better yet tell your boyfriend he will take care of the problem for you. Or if they come near you start screaming or start shouting stalker or just shout really loud I SAID NO NOW COULD YOU PLEASE STOP STALKING ME?? YOUR CREEPING ME OUT! that should scare them off.
2007-01-27 14:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Ignore them, and tell them that you are going to tell thier family, if the bother you agian,
Good Luck!
2007-01-27 14:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋