Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

Here is the story. I met this guy on vacation and we hit it off. We kept in touch since and he invited me to visit after three months. When I arrived and we got to his house he informed me that he had been seeing someone for three years, that it was a long distance relationship and that it would never go anywhere because neither he nor she would ever move. Also, they only see each other once a month for a weekend. However, she keeps clothes at his house for when she visits. I went nuts and said I was leaving so he paid for me to stay at a hotel.
That first night he took me to dinner and it was so romantic that next thing you know the hotel wasn't necessary. He paid for the hotel but I stayed at his house with him. We had a great time and have been talking on the phone nonstop since I got back.
Since we haven't known each other long enough to demand exclusivity, I am trying to give this a chance, am I a fool? Should I not see him any more?

2007-01-26 07:20:15 · 28 answers · asked by LDR02 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this boi that i've known for almost 6months i went out with him for like 3, then we broke up due to problems he was facing and didnt want me to get caught up in. I miss him so much after the break up i didnt talk 2 him for 2 weeks cause i didnt kno why we broke up, I thought he just did'nt want to be with me. But anyway i called him by mistake and hung up and he called me back saying he miss talkin to me and even though where not 2gether he still wants to talk to me. So after that we've been talking. Gettin to my problem during some of our convos hes been saying that he misses me and expressing his feelings but he hasn't ask me back out, He still calls me baby or whatever. the other night i went to see him with my friend and she was tryin to hook us up but i wasnt letting him get a word in when she was askin him questions about us. I wanna get back with him i don't wanna wait until its to late to tell him this i want him to kno that i crave him.how should it go

2007-01-26 07:19:32 · 9 answers · asked by Tjmaxx is my world 1 in Singles & Dating

well, my bf tells me everything and right after we got together one of our old roommates... crystal told adam(my bf) that she had a thing for him. adam said sorry crystal i'm with tash and i'm happy, maybe if it was before i met her i'd consider it but not now.
that was fine big deal so what.
well later crystal and i were talking and she was like yea i have a thing for a guy that has a gf and i was like don't persue it.... cuz i know she was talking about adam.
then she went on to say what if i could be better for him
and i just got up and left... was that wrong of me to do? was i being rude? should i have told her i know she likes my bf?

2007-01-26 07:19:30 · 26 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 07:19:29 · 3 answers · asked by castillo5247 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend E****(name not available) is bringing me homework from school...shes one of 2-4 real friends I have and she is one of my bestfriends...she lives three houses down...and I love to play and express my self and bestfriend stuff to her and her mother is a way syc***(woudn't wanna be mean)(you know why)but I treat and feel like she is my sister,she has a anoying little br**(mean again)of a brother,M*****(name again)but she is really unpopular...other tweens(age 8-12) pick on her..I am really popular...I hang around her alot,but I could go on for hours but I just need to know if I should keep her as a bestfriend and or Ect.Should I?PLease give me advice...

2007-01-26 07:19:26 · 13 answers · asked by @___{mint« 1 in Friends

Girls I need your advice. I am 22 and have never really had a girlfriend... What can I do?
I am 6'0" I have black hair and brown eyes. Everyone says I am very handsome. I don't know what to do. I've wanted a girlfriend for the longest time!!!!!Please help. Thanks. I appreciate any and ALL advice. :-)

2007-01-26 07:19:21 · 6 answers · asked by Unique Guy 2 in Singles & Dating

the last time we talked it was about a girl he added on his myspace and how i shouldn't be jealous cuz they were close in school together in highschool now its like his too busy to even answer the phone !

2007-01-26 07:18:48 · 8 answers · asked by B crazy 1 in Friends

My wedding is in September and we finally decided last minute that we are gonna have this wedding. Problem: I need a banquet hall or some facility. Im on a budget tho. I am European but Im only having 300 guests. It kinda has to be in Chicago or in the NW suburbs. Des Plaines, Shaumburg, Bartlett, Addison ect. The reason for this is that Im having my family come down from Wisconsin but we live in Chicago so Id like to have it a little more north if anything but not far from us. Of course it has to be kinda pretty and I do need to provide my own (European) band. If it provides a cake then thats fine. For 300 ppl or more. It can be a hall or even some place clever but within a good price. Well Im prolly askin for too much but thats cuz I have no idea what to do for this wedding. I need help for everything. LOL : )

2007-01-26 07:18:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-26 07:18:34 · 8 answers · asked by Jackie L 1 in Family

2007-01-26 07:18:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I lost my Mother four yrs ago to cancer when I was 24. The anniversary of her death is soon. Whenever I think about her, I just get very sad and angry. I don't sit and dwell on it everyday, but when I think about her I would like to not be so sad. When does this get better? I hope it does. I just wish she could know her grandchildren. I do my best to make sure they know of her.

2007-01-26 07:18:04 · 8 answers · asked by armywifetp 3 in Family

apart from a very strong gut feeling,there are several other things ive picked up on recently that's telling me to get a grip and stop being the niave trusting partner that he knows i am.i need to know if i have been right to be suspicious or if ive been so so wrong but i need to know soon.i also need to do this discreetly so he has no idea im even capable of suspecting him.please give me the best ways and tips to get on with this and either give him the shock of his life or realise it's my paranoia and get on with our lives and be happy.

2007-01-26 07:17:49 · 30 answers · asked by nicola d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-26 07:17:22 · 7 answers · asked by Fawnia A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 07:17:09 · 4 answers · asked by Kuro 1 in Friends

They are 29 and 25 yrs old. They turn on the TV, radio, get on the phone and mess aournd in his house and make a big mess and usually wake him up and he doesnt say anything about it.
I planned a dinner date with him and his mother and brother the other day and anyone else he wanted to invite, so I woke him up to ask him how many people were coming because I had to get to the bank before they closed to get some money. He threw a fit because I woke him up. He is still harping on it. I paid over $100 bucks for everyones dinner and drove 80 mi to get to the restaraunt. He acts so unthankful. Why does he gripe at me, but not his adult kids, and grandkids and other people who wake him up? He works nites.

2007-01-26 07:16:17 · 21 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am very beautiful, yet so shy and have only one friend who lives in another state. So, I was wondering if thereare any beautiful shy people around and are you like me very lonely? Also, if you are not, why do you think this is? How would you find friends. It seems like anyone I start making friends with fades away...

2007-01-26 07:16:04 · 5 answers · asked by soosool 2 in Friends

2007-01-26 07:15:58 · 24 answers · asked by jawsgurl 2 in Singles & Dating

Typically scenario - my fiancee & I bought a house, refianced for 125% of the value one month ago and he has since decided he's done. All the furniture is mine and he won't leave, he wants my son & to leave. I've heard of forcing him to sell, but we are upside down on our mortgage. I tried to tell him to put the house on market and we will both equally come out of pocket to close. I can't stay in house but both names are on mortgage and deed. I told him I'm not leaving and if he won't put the house up for sale I'm not going to may the mortgage and force it into a foreclosure (I realize this will effect our credit - which will upset him). What do I do!!!

2007-01-26 07:13:57 · 22 answers · asked by lissabell99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 07:13:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

stay with the idea of going to Cornwall for my short break in February...or is there anywhere better to get my wild???

2007-01-26 07:13:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They say i am different to any other guys

2007-01-26 07:13:17 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

Hey, girls this is a second try..to find out good girl to hv nice time, don't take me wrong it is not about sex, but it is about having good time with girl-friend, hope someone hot will answer me !!

I hv sense of humore, love music and dancing, photography n watching movie.! If you cool girl with nice body and hot nature but with clean heart......give me buzz....waiting for someone.

2007-01-26 07:12:56 · 2 answers · asked by trymegirlsinside 1 in Singles & Dating

and she told me ask gay ppl how to get me back you honzy son of a whor*! i am asking you ppl to help

2007-01-26 07:12:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Many people think so and have told me. i don't think wearing "glasses" makes you smarter at all!I hate hte steriotype!

2007-01-26 07:11:46 · 76 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Friends

I have two. Don't ask!

2007-01-26 07:10:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been friends with this guy since last August and we've become pretty close. We go out, shopping, dinner, movies, we email and talk on the phone basically everyday - he even made sure to schedule his classes at the same time as mine. He invited me to go to a New Year's Eve party with him and even talks about us going out to dinner with his friend and his wife and about how much his friends will like me. However, we've never kissed, held hands, only hugged and when we go out to dinner or a movie, I always pay for my own. Additional info is that I am going through a divorce and he knows this so I'm not sure if that has anything to do with the mixed signals or what. Anyway, I'm fine with this either way, just wanted some other opinions! Thanks to all who answer!

2007-01-26 07:09:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whos attention do you want...and what would you do to capture the attention of your quarry...just for fun...so have fun...;0)

2007-01-26 07:09:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 07:09:17 · 20 answers · asked by Bubbles 3 in Singles & Dating

I honestly do not see what the problem is. I am a high school student and I see people getting yelled at and beat up just because they are with someone of a different race. I myself have had relationships with people of a different race and have never experienced the hate that comes from it, but many of my friends have. What's the deal, why do we care so much?

2007-01-26 07:09:14 · 3 answers · asked by Bee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 07:09:13 · 3 answers · asked by Queen_B 2 in Singles & Dating