How can explain this to him in a letter?

Question

There is this boi that i've known for almost 6months i went out with him for like 3, then we broke up due to problems he was facing and didnt want me to get caught up in. I miss him so much after the break up i didnt talk 2 him for 2 weeks cause i didnt kno why we broke up, I thought he just did'nt want to be with me. But anyway i called him by mistake and hung up and he called me back saying he miss talkin to me and even though where not 2gether he still wants to talk to me. So after that we've been talking. Gettin to my problem during some of our convos hes been saying that he misses me and expressing his feelings but he hasn't ask me back out, He still calls me baby or whatever. the other night i went to see him with my friend and she was tryin to hook us up but i wasnt letting him get a word in when she was askin him questions about us. I wanna get back with him i don't wanna wait until its to late to tell him this i want him to kno that i crave him.how should it go

Answer 1

It sounds like you are afraid he will say he doesnt want to be with you. I would take a deep breath and see if he comes around. Also, guys like it when you give them ideas that they think it was their idea in the first place... if that helps. Make him ask you out because he thought it up on his own.

Answer 2

First and foremost, It seems like you're rushing into things and desperate. Don't rush into things because things will not work out if you do, I promise you that. If he likes you and wants to be with you, he will not need anyone's assistance in asking you back out, he will do it on his own. I don't think you should ask him out, that is just not how things should go. Let him ask you on his own, with no help of others because if he has people pressure him, he's going to ask you out for the wrong reasons. With this being said, if you want to write him a letter anyway and tell him how you feel maybe it should go like this:

*Dear name*

I want you to know that I really enjoyed the three months we spent together as a couple. I never truly understood why we broke up or how,all I know is that I was hurt and never wanted it to happen. I care about your well being and just want you to be a part of my life. I think we can put our last breakup behind us and move forward. What do you think and how do you feel about this? Please let me know as soon as you find time.

*Sign*

I hope this helps! Good luck!

Answer 3

This guy sounds as if he is just messing with your head. He broke up so you must accept that he is not that into you. Sometimes us girls try to second guess a guys actions and we try to put it in more acceptable terms. The rejection is hard on anyone, but if you continue to deny the fact that he does not want to be with you, then you will be putting yourself out there to just have him hurt you. There must be plently of other guys out there that you do not need to wait around a cry over this one? Come on, show him he is the one that lost out, go out and meet new friends. Best of luck to you!

Answer 4

Why don't you just write to him everything you just wrote on the web for millons to see.... Tell him in your letter exactly how you feel and how you're confused. Tell him how you weren't letting him put a word in, and how you miss him. Just be honest with him and maybe he'll be honest with you.
Whatever you do, go for it! and GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

Just call him again.......and arrange to meet......I am sure it will all come out when you two have a chance to talk.

It still sounds like you are BOTH still interested.

Answer 6

I think that you should just speak from the heart and tell him how you feel.

Answer 7

tell him that u miss his arms around u and his warm kisses. that u what to be with him and don't want to leave him again.

Answer 8

Tell him what you feel, don't hold back. If it's meant to be, it will be.

Answer 9

i agree with melangel i could have said it better myself