2007-01-26 07:18:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are saying you should feel bad because they feel bad, then no. Your feelings are yours, and the other person's belong to them.
Empathizing with them, having an idea of how they feel is good. Maybe feeling sorry for them if they are suffering, etc.
But I don't think one should be so linked that when they feel bad, you automatically feel bad too.
2007-01-26 07:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, being emotionally good means that whatever the assertive answer maybe, it is presented in a way that would not hurt or defy the other person's feelings. On the other hand, it may put across the point, making space for the other person think on a different dimension.
2007-01-26 07:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Shell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly before everything your thoughts are thoroughly comprehensible and popular. Intimacy is about believe and affection and intimacy it is CREATED over the approach an afternoon or week or life no longer only in a second. My husband stocks your thoughts about no longer being waiting to be intimate with me both until eventually he feels threat-free, secure, constructive about us and our relationship. You sound like you've each and every of the justifications interior the international to no longer sense threat-free, secure & grounded genuinely in yours. genuinely you should no longer be anticipated to easily positioned up with him and then positioned OUT because of his desires even as YOUR desires are being over regarded and stomped on. YOU saying that he can no longer help IT, or can't save in ideas is not any EXCUSE and also you excusing such issues is somewhat worrisome in and of itself i imagine! he's verbally abusing you, being disrespectful, unkind, thoughtless and in all likelihood hateful and also you've were given each and every reason to no longer go with to be intimate with him. HE appears like he desires some training on self administration on the very minimum. i ought to verify into some counseling for him and as a pair and have a seem at a e book for couples said as "5 Love Languages" (Chapman) it is fairly well worth the examine if he's likewise keen to ascertain and study and modify.
2016-10-16 03:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accepting the feelings ; yes; but letting it rub into you resulting in you getting flustered ; NO
2007-01-26 15:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by SidBridge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-26 07:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by stranger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT!!!
2007-01-26 07:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋