Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

Ok heres the deal. I broke up with my bf because he told me when we started dating that he didnt want to get married or even have kids. ( things that are important to me later in life) So i thought i could change. But later realize 6 months later that i cant. Well we've been broken up for a month now and says that he can change if thats what keeps me in his life. Now is it possible for a guy to change so rapidly like that or he feeding me bull to just get me back and string me along as long as possible?

2007-01-25 11:48:28 · 54 answers · asked by princessofthesticks31 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 11:46:48 · 7 answers · asked by arva 1 in Friends

I'm nothing but a brocken Heart
Tired of the world and its people all around
Tired of being pused around working hard
Wished everyone was just be gone
Tired of looking in the sky and wishing I could flly
Fly away from here
Fly away from my troubles and lige
Wish there was a world for people like me
where you dont have to act something your not.....

2007-01-25 11:46:32 · 6 answers · asked by Me 6 in Friends

We were in front of his family and I was about to buy a pair of shoes.He started telling me the shoe wasn't the right size.Started arguing with me about what size shoe I wear.Then started screaming at meand pointing his finger at me saying"try it on!!try it on!!".It was SO embarrassing!I didn't try it on like he ORDERED and bought the shoes .Later when his family came to visit us they were looking at my shoe collection and saw that all the shoes were the size of the shoe I was buying!!........................Whydid he make such a seen?Why does he always try to make me look like a liar in front of his family?

2007-01-25 11:46:15 · 12 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

me and the guy im dating went out to the movies. we hadnt seen each other for about a month. so we went back to his house n things got a little heated. he stopped everything and told me he felt horrible cus he thought he was taking advantage of me and im so nice that he thought i was letting him do it. he said we needed to hang out a little bit more before we started getting "hot and bothered" and that he didnt wanna feel horrible about taking advantage of me. what's his deal?

2007-01-25 11:45:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to say hey sup guy? to girls?
is it ok to say something like sup guys? or see ya guys? to two girls?
What else can i say if there is more than one girl and i want to say bye to all of them or something like that? for highschool

2007-01-25 11:45:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What makes sex an important part of a relationship for men, and if you reasons are so strong, why is it that most of you fall asleep like babies so fast after sex?

2007-01-25 11:44:44 · 23 answers · asked by J J 3 in Singles & Dating

How do I know if a 13 year old guy likes me?? Me and him are in 2 of the same classes, we talk alot. He asks nicer and alot more funny and open about himself whenever I talk to him. He doesn't really do that around anyone else that I know of. SO, HOW DO I KNOW IF HE LIKES ME??????
And what do you consider flirting when you are 13 and in 7th grade??

2007-01-25 11:44:32 · 9 answers · asked by Dancin' HOTTIE!! 3 in Singles & Dating

I can't stop thinking about this guy in my first period PE class. I never talk to him even tho we have a small class. He's a senior and I'm a sophomore which is a problem. I can't help but see if he's looking at me. I dont know why. But the crazy thing is that I wanna refuse to like anyone, like having a crush because I love someone else living far away and I am deeply committed to my mom's best friend's son. Plus, I kno that it wouldnt work out with me and the senior. I have seen his myspace and it had perverted pics. But still, I cant shake him out of my head. I think he's starting to notice because I always have the urge to look at him. He's like one inch taller than me. I have seen him last year and rarely. Well anyways, please help me. I dont want him to treat me like I'm a puppy dog-either mean or 'aw thats so cute but no'

2007-01-25 11:44:22 · 13 answers · asked by mel 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to do the basic, unoriginal things like chocolate and teddy bears. We have only been dating for a few months

2007-01-25 11:43:57 · 3 answers · asked by smoka J 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some random conversation ideas to talk about when there is like nothing to talk about (akward silence) with friends?

2007-01-25 11:43:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

it is not that i do not want to but here is a legal question

he has no childrenk, no relatives and he has inherited x from his parents as only child. He has his own house, where we both live in and, I just wonder....

if something ever happened to him, and there is no will, would I have to leave the house?

2007-01-25 11:43:16 · 29 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 11:43:09 · 21 answers · asked by bluebird 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

married her?i just found a stack of love letters,cards,photos from my bfs old gf.we have been dating for 5yrs and he has never once said a word about her but has talked about other gfs in his past.i asked his sister about this and she told me he left his wife for her 7yrs ago and they have a long datting history together.but she also told me he dated her for 7mons after he left his wife but cheated on her with 2 different women that she never found out about.i also found out she has contacted him recently why has he not said anything to me?how come he has never said a word about her to me?the question i really would like a anwser to is why if she means so much to him why would he cheat on her with 2 different women but if she means nothing but good sex why save all the stuff she gave him?

2007-01-25 11:42:18 · 5 answers · asked by fran6getty 1 in Family

me + my friends were on vacation, + we were camping out @ a big party. randomly, someone came into my tent, + started kissing me. it was dark, + i had NO IDEA who it was, + i didnt tell anyone because it was the best sex ever. what should i do?
camp out again?

2007-01-25 11:41:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last year, my bf lauren and i bfriended this girl @ our skool. she's hard 2 keep happy tho. she takes anti deppression medicine and ces councilers + stuff. her family isn't exactly wealthy either, but they rn't that poor. she's always getting upset w/ us 4 wearing nicer clothes when the clothes she gets r from walmart. we dont want 2 upset her, but our moms buy us stuff from aeropastle and american eagle and hollister. we dont take her shopping w/ us and dont talk about our shopping sprees around her. we never brag either. we try bing a good friend, but wut ever we do, it only seems 2 make her more upset. she also thinx she's fat, and i wont admit that she's skinny, but she's always on 2 us about us bing skinny. we r bcuz we're vegetarians and were very athletic. she considers us 2 b "rich" she thinx skool is effortless 4 us. i feel guilty, but it's not our fault 4 a lot of these things! if her crush looks @ us she gets mad. it's not our fault! is she a friend worth keeping?

2007-01-25 11:41:45 · 3 answers · asked by GDCBGB 3 in Friends

married her?i just found a stack of love letters,cards,photos from my bfs old gf.we have been dating for 5yrs and he has never once said a word about her but has talked about other gfs in his past.i asked his sister about this and she told me he left his wife for her 7yrs ago and they have a long datting history together.but she also told me he dated her for 7mons after he left his wife but cheated on her with 2 different women that she never found out about.i also found out she has contacted him recently why has he not said anything to me?how come he has never said a word about her to me?the question i really would like a anwser to is why if she means so much to him why would he cheat on her with 2 different women but if she means nothing but good sex why save all the stuff she gave him?

2007-01-25 11:41:37 · 4 answers · asked by fran6getty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk_politics/6296539.stm

2007-01-25 11:41:36 · 10 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok heres the deal. I broke up with my bf because he told me when we started dating that he didnt want to get married or even have kids. ( things that are important to me later in life) So i thought i could change. But later realize 6 months later that i cant. Well we've been broken up for a month now and says that he can change if thats what keeps me in his life. Now is it possible for a guy to change so rapidly like that or he feeding me bull to just get me back and string me along as long as possible?

2007-01-25 11:41:18 · 9 answers · asked by princessofthesticks31 2 in Singles & Dating

i had a boy friend who broke up with me a year ago and just today a mutual friend told me that my ex wanted me to call him. the friend said that he had told him about my older boyfriend and my ex sounded worried and said that he never should have borken up with me and i was a nice girl. but the thing is he dumped me when i was suicidal over the phone why all the sudden does he care about me now? it cant be jealousy because ive had other boyfriends between him and who im with now

2007-01-25 11:40:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

come on girls give me yo best answers and plz be serious

2007-01-25 11:40:16 · 15 answers · asked by Sexy Jen 601 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that legally if neither the father or step mother claims him on their taxes i can claim him. But the problem lies here. For 2 years my son has been living with his father. His father is an illegal from mexico(long story) and doesnt file taxes. Last year i claimed him on my taxes and just gave his dad the money. This year because of a fallen out between myself and his wife(the step mom) she says she's going to claim him this year. I know that since he lives with them that she has the legal right to claim him, and she said she "might" claim him this year-because she is mad at me. So anyhow she has 3 other kids and im not exactly sure she will claim him since she's already claiming 3 and she's never claimed him before and she said she "might" claim him. I would love to see my son get this money and would love to hand it over to the dad. Now what do you think about me claiming him anyways since im not positive that she'll be claiming him. How does that work if in the end she did??

2007-01-25 11:38:52 · 9 answers · asked by Kristi A 4 in Family

2007-01-25 11:38:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ahhhhh kissing first time?
new boyfriend 1st kiss ahhhhhhh not his 1st kiss but mine im a little nervous im 15 he is 17. and we been dating a week . I dont want to look stupid.

2007-01-25 11:38:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Van halen
Randy Rhodes
yours?

2007-01-25 11:38:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He just grew one and prior to this he very rarely had facial hair. I despise the goatee... I find it very unattractive, almost repulsive; however, all his co-workers like it. As his wife, should my opinion count for something? I know he would resent me if I asked him to shave it; however, I want to enjoy looking at him! Whaddaya think?

2007-01-25 11:37:51 · 9 answers · asked by Kristi G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i went into my boyfriends email and online accts and found some things that really upset me. One thing that pissed me off was the fact that he always told me how great of a guy he was and how i was the one for him yet i saw him sending messages to some girl calling her baby and saying that he misses her and this was 4 months into our relationship. I saw that he sent her an email of naked pics of himself but ive seen nothing more since august. I dont know what to do. I saw some other messages telling girls that he loved me an that he thought that something great was coming out of our relationship and that I was hi number one. How should i take this. On the one he he did acknowlege the relationship and care for me to most of the girls he has spoken to but to this girl he didnt and calling her baby and saying he wishes she were online more so they could talk more and he misses her. i found a profile of hers and know she lives in a city by him and we are about 3 hours away from one another

2007-01-25 11:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by lovesickprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 11:37:14 · 25 answers · asked by Paydro! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl not too long ago through one of my cousins, who lives in the same state as the girl I'm now seeing. We get along great, but only get to see each other on weekends because we live two states apart. We also e-mail, IM and call each other from time to time during the week. I've never had any long-distance relationships before, so I really don't know what to expect. If all goes well between my girl and I, I plan to move to her state in a few years, but that's still a long ways off. So, for those who have been in long-distance relationships: are they worth the investment (e.g., time, Greyhound bus tickets most weekends) and risk (e.g., the chance of her seeing someone else during the week)?

2007-01-25 11:36:12 · 13 answers · asked by bullet_to_the_brain 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so, i'm 13, i like a 16 y/ old, but, i lied to him. i don't know how it really happend, but i lied that i had done drugs. i haven't, but i told him i had, along with more lies. well, a week ago i told him i had lied. he got really mad at me, and now he doesn't trust me. at all, no matter what i say. well, to destract him from the lies, i wrote up a list of things about him, like why i like him, and how i feel, and junk like that, i got the list of the internet. but he thinks it's true, now he thinks i only want to go out with him. not true. well, a few days ago he droped the whole thing. i said when it was quiet that i was sorry, he just said he didn't care ANYMORE. whats that mean? should i bring it up and try to make him see the truth, or let it be untill the next fight. we're best friends, and i can't stand him mad at me. or him ignore the proberblem, i want to talk. but him as a guy wants to let it go. should i bring it up or not?

2007-01-25 11:35:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends