i went into my boyfriends email and online accts and found some things that really upset me. One thing that pissed me off was the fact that he always told me how great of a guy he was and how i was the one for him yet i saw him sending messages to some girl calling her baby and saying that he misses her and this was 4 months into our relationship. I saw that he sent her an email of naked pics of himself but ive seen nothing more since august. I dont know what to do. I saw some other messages telling girls that he loved me an that he thought that something great was coming out of our relationship and that I was hi number one. How should i take this. On the one he he did acknowlege the relationship and care for me to most of the girls he has spoken to but to this girl he didnt and calling her baby and saying he wishes she were online more so they could talk more and he misses her. i found a profile of hers and know she lives in a city by him and we are about 3 hours away from one another
2007-01-25 11:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by lovesickprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what would you do if you were in this situation?
2007-01-27 13:44:00 · update #1
He doesn’t seem to be serious in your relationship.
Hanging on to it will probably upset you further. ;D.
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2007-02-01 04:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you were wrong to snoop into his stuff. But now that you have, I would get rid of him. You can never trust someone that is not honest with you. I caught my ex in a lie, and I could never trust him again. You will always second guess what he is telling you. You are going to worry about him causing you to stress out. The best bet for you is to leave him. If he thought you were the only one for him, then he would treat you like that and not hid things from you and will act like it.
2007-02-02 16:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by Soccer Taz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you trust him or you don't! You can be whatever and whoever you want to be online! You snooped and found something you did not like...... really there are two options...you fess up as to what you did, whether or not he will tell you the truth is another issue and perhaps set some boundaries...such as always protecting yourself.... or you deal with it and find your self consuming all of your time snooping in your mans things!
2007-02-02 04:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lady D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation with my ex, we were together for 4 years but I got to a point when I realised that I would never be able to trust him fully because he was able to hide things from me, I felt I couldn't be free neither could he in that relationship so that was the end of it.
2007-02-01 15:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by Liz S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in this situation once. I told him if he'd rather be with a chick over the computer then he can, i just let him know that he won't see her everyday, so holding on to the computer and looking at her picture is going to work for him, then he can have her. And these chicks that he was doing this too, were his ''old'' friends, so i just let him do what he wants, and what do you know? he's with me and not with his ''old'' friends
2007-02-02 18:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can now accept the inernet. as porno. men and women can get off on seeing naked pics and talking dirty with people they don't know. Just considerate looking at a playboy mag. Its basically the same. I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-02-02 13:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words~
dump him!
sorry, i know it sounds harsh but i mean~ he sent naked photos of himself, it doesnt matter how long ago that was~ get rid of him!
2007-02-02 18:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he'll brag about you than he wants to be with you..he is probably just using this girl cause convenience...lose him...here is when this saying comes in "cant have your cake and eat it too"...think about it...good luck
2007-02-02 15:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by kauaichic420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy,He didn't send naked pics of you..
2007-02-02 19:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by Hooch A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave he not hte one for you
2007-02-02 17:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by stanley w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋