married her?i just found a stack of love letters,cards,photos from my bfs old gf.we have been dating for 5yrs and he has never once said a word about her but has talked about other gfs in his past.i asked his sister about this and she told me he left his wife for her 7yrs ago and they have a long datting history together.but she also told me he dated her for 7mons after he left his wife but cheated on her with 2 different women that she never found out about.i also found out she has contacted him recently why has he not said anything to me?how come he has never said a word about her to me?the question i really would like a anwser to is why if she means so much to him why would he cheat on her with 2 different women but if she means nothing but good sex why save all the stuff she gave him?
2007-01-25 11:42:18 · 5 answers · asked by fran6getty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He is fickle and likes to play the field and you shouldn't waste any time on him if you ever want to settle down yourself. He's not husband or even boyfriend material.
2007-01-25 11:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont mean to be judgemental about your boyfriend, yet you posed the question. He feels like some type of scum! you've been relationship this guy for 5 years and swiftly you chanced on some list of heritage with a secret woman that he retains locked up someplace in his innovations, coronary heart, penis, anyplace? what type of man or woman strings someone alongside for that lengthy? He has a heritage of dishonest and leaving his spouse for this woman. i might want to be extra frightened of this guy on the grounds that that sounds alongside the lines of an obsessive disease. He may even attempt to conceal his own verbal change between this woman from you, even although he can make it appear like this isn't so. you should enable him love that woman of 20 years, it will be extra reachable on you and him. you may't in any respect have your cake and eat it too not in any respect!!!
2016-12-03 01:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me you've got a guy who cheats on whoever he's with and is stupid enough to keep the evidence. Perhaps he wanted you to find it so he can get kicked out and move on to someone else to cheat on. I'd help him do just that.
2007-01-25 12:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she was very important to him at a time in his life when he didnt know what he wanted in his life this might be why he hasnt told you about her because now you are what he wants and he dosent want you to know the old him.
2007-01-25 11:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by beau4dean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful if he left a wife for her he may leave a gf easier
2007-01-25 11:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋