Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

I have not spoken to my father in 3 yrs. The 1,000 times we have ever talked was because I contacted him. We live in the same state but I will be getting married away. Our past very much bothers me still, so I am unsure if I should invite him. I just don't want to invite him and I never get a response, whether he accepts the invite or not, because then that will cause much more negativity that I hold for him, should i even bother?

2007-01-25 12:27:35 · 27 answers · asked by Glorylori28 2 in Weddings

my heart starts beating really fast and it feel like its doing flips or something and my hands start to shake really bad. he's my boyfriend. what the heck is wrong with me?

2007-01-25 12:27:10 · 19 answers · asked by Socastee_Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

theres a girl i want to ask out but shes the cousin of a friend ive had my whole life he wants he to ask her out but i cant help the feeling if i ask her out shell think im doin it cuz her cousin told me to not cuz i like her any advice

2007-01-25 12:27:06 · 10 answers · asked by Makaveli 3 in Singles & Dating

My best friends boyfriend siad a bad rumor and she isnt mad sould I be mad at her

2007-01-25 12:26:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke *** college student, and I cannot afford them, but then he's still asking me to told me to call him on his cell phone for a free session, and he told me not to worry about it...and so i told him I would let him know but he will text me, and tell me that he wants to hook me up, and money is no problem, so I booked the free session, but my question is why is he being so pushy..

2007-01-25 12:26:05 · 1 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Friends

alirte..this one is about my "mom" and the reason i put "mom" is because i feel that she really isnt my mom anymore....yes i do love her more than anyone in the world...but i am only 15 yr's old and well my mom has a gambling problem...she never comes home to make supper..spend time with me and my sisters ....if i do see her it would be in the morning before i go to school...but just the other day i said to her "mom i need you to get grocries" and she said "yeh well its not my responsiblity"...i dont no how she could say that...i feel like she doesnt care...she never ever use to be like this till about 6 months ago..and now its bad...and i wanted to get out of my house for a while to relieve all the stress and emotions i have..i wanted to go to my friends house for 4 days which is about 30 mins from my house..but the other nite when i asked my mom she said "NO" rite away cause she thinks my friend is "bad" but she really isnt...how do i tell her this and get her to say yes thats fine?

2007-01-25 12:25:49 · 8 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Family

will this be possible if we go to a Non-Denominational Church?

2007-01-25 12:25:45 · 2 answers · asked by eviemonster11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Latly..i have been feeling something in my room...One night i felt a mans hand touch my coller.....the other night i felt some one sit on my bed...today i felt some thing standing beside my bed....so is there really spirites?

2007-01-25 12:25:18 · 4 answers · asked by gypsylady007a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my gilrfriend are 11 and have been going out for a while now,and when we get on the school bus we don't have aything to talk about.So help me PLEASE.

2007-01-25 12:24:35 · 18 answers · asked by lil2779 1 in Singles & Dating

her nae is Kimberly but the reason i think she thinks my"but"is big
because she is sooooooooooooooooooooooooo
small and skinny!

PS she moved away!and i know her phone number!

2007-01-25 12:24:08 · 27 answers · asked by Kali ♥ 3 in Friends

I know many girls who are labeled as "ho's, tramps, sluts, chickenheads", etc and I just want to know if they can change their bad ways or if they are going to be like this the rest of their lives. For some of them it seems as though they are natural-born heart-breakers. I even know some that courageously admit to me that they are chicken-heads and that they do feel bad for breaking so many guys' hearts. Some of these girls are really good people and they do have a kind heart, but only sometimes. Because a week, month, or few months later they will go back to their wild lifestyle and forget about what they said and continue to act promiscuous. It's like at this period they are emotionless or sometimes heartless and cruel but then fell bad again. They cycle this behavior over and over constantly. Feeling bad one minute not wanting to hurt anybody but the next minute not caring again. So, can a girl really change from a "ho to a housewife"? Or are they cursed for life?

2007-01-25 12:24:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

girls always make eye contact with me but neither has come and talked to me.Why so girls please explain

2007-01-25 12:23:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy suddenly stops calling a girl, was seen holding another girls hand and he calls her a month and a half later and she doesn´t answer the call does he have a right to be mad? Was she right for not answering the call?

2007-01-25 12:23:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat do i do i cant tll him th truth cuz hell stp likn me if he finds out im a lier

2007-01-25 12:23:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 12:22:58 · 2 answers · asked by RANDOM 3 in Singles & Dating

Ahhhhh kissing first time?
new boyfriend 1st kiss ahhhhhhh not his 1st kiss but mine im a little nervous im 15 he is 17. and we been dating a week . I dont want to look stupid.

2007-01-25 12:22:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got married but i was sex deprived coz my wife is either too tired or working nites

2007-01-25 12:21:27 · 6 answers · asked by Casper 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is currently working on his Masters degree in the UK and planning to come to Canada on a student visa later in the summer. I reside in Toronto, Ontario and am a Canadian citizen. He is not a Canadian citizen. We have been talking about marriage and the different types of ceremonies, i.e. civil, church, and traditional like here he is from in Nigeria. Is it possible to have a civil union ( having a judge or justice of the peace perform the ceremony) and still have a church wedding later?

2007-01-25 12:21:10 · 4 answers · asked by ElleGucci99 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend broke-up with me! Im so upset i thought we really had something. I've been crying all night and day! What should i do????:(

2007-01-25 12:20:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 12:20:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She's a stunning girl, and she's always wearing sexy clothes. I'm worried about her Christian values. I don't think they're the same as mine. Should I dump her?

2007-01-25 12:20:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok,i just dumped my girlfriend.i was thinking about going out with this other girl.turns out, she has a boyfriend that goes to another school.now, im guessing they dont see each other much, but i could be wrong.she is always flirting with me( hugging me, wanting me to put my arm around her shoulder)i think she likes me even though she has a b/f. so... should i go out with her

2007-01-25 12:20:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have this friend, we "used" to be best friends, see she's less fortunate I guess you say she works hard for what she gets and, see My Parents "spoil" me and everytime I get something new she gets mad, and I don't even brag. Whats wrong? Is it me or her?

2007-01-25 12:20:19 · 3 answers · asked by jscifres02 3 in Friends

my question is well see i have a friend from my former high school well we graduated and he has a girlfriend well he met her on myspace and there both 19 but like she has'nt talked to him for the past 7 days and like she tells him she loves him and i dont think he talked to her either. i think she's up to something and i dont think he knows what it is. and plus she dressess like ho and the've been together for 5 months.

2007-01-25 12:19:58 · 4 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Friends

How long does divorce take it going on 4 months.We have 2 kids,
We both want custody.I live in the city my wife live in the county with her parents.Right now my wife pays me child support. She
hasn't pay me seens it started 3 months ago.She has a lawery
her lawrey tells my wife to pay something on the child support.(she refuse).Then my wife file for custody and child support against me in the city circuit court without her lawery.The kids stay
with me 5 nights a week(schools nights).She has them on the weekend.My lawrey talks to her lawery,My lawery telling me,Her lawery is saying my wife feels she don't have to pay child support or day care. She claiming that she's the primary care taker.
I'm talking to Co-worker,They're telling me the judge will ask her she lost her mind.* You're behind on your child support.*you have the kids 2 night out the week.You're asking for child support and custody.The Co-worker are saying the judge might though her in jail for not paying child sup

2007-01-25 12:18:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i are renewing our wedding vows in november and i am having a hard time deciding on the colors. it will be a fall/country theme and i don't know what flowers or colors can be used and it not look tacky. all answers will be appreciated and if you know of any websites with pictures of flowers and directions to make them, then they would be appreciated. thanks and GOD bless you all!!!

2007-01-25 12:18:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My son is about to have a biopsy to test for cancer, Would you all say a prayer for him please. Send hope to a terrified 18 year old young man. I would greatly appreciate it! Prayer is all we have right now.

2007-01-25 12:18:41 · 12 answers · asked by Bella 2 in Family

As I was saying, My friend Brittany And Marcy have been there for me in the darkest hours of my life. I was talking with two other friends at lunch today and Brittany hasnt really been all that open this year. I am getting the feeling she has something on her mind and she wants to say but she cant. Her boy friend says he think she looks fat, but thats what I heard from Amanda Marcy and David.I feel like helping Brittany and want to ask if shes doing alright. Her grades have sudently droped and thats just another thing I heard. Amanda hadnt been hanging around her lately and Brittany seems to be a bit sad about something. I want to find out whats wrong but I am not for sure if I should wait until she lets it out or not. I need some advice and fast. I hate to see my Best Friend so down the way she is. Please help me.

In Christ,
Justin

2007-01-25 12:18:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was looking for a romantic place for us to go out to eat, so I found this place and he stated "We go out to eat here all the time" implying people from work. This place was all candle light, and mostly couples were in there. So after we were done eating there I saw a little bar across the street and suggested us to go there to dance a little he stated he wont like that place its just a little hole in the wall I said so lets go....and he said no that bar I been there a couple of time after work and you wouldnt like it. so we didnt go because he wouldnt. when I later looked that place up online it seemed to have good reviews and I told him that and he told me to forget about that place and stormed off to bed.
We have been married for ten years, and he has lied in the past, what you guys think.

2007-01-25 12:18:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-25 12:16:51 · 13 answers · asked by terbear2002 1 in Weddings