She's a stunning girl, and she's always wearing sexy clothes. I'm worried about her Christian values. I don't think they're the same as mine. Should I dump her?
2007-01-25 12:20:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never judge a book by the cover.
2007-01-25 12:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And sounds like you're only assuming she has Christian values. A lot of (if not the majority) of Christians are only "Christian" by name. She doesn't sound like a nice girl, but that's who she is. If you're willing to date a skimpy-dressing girl, keep her. If you're not, dump her.
2007-01-25 12:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a matter of values, it's probably something you two should talk about. She may get angry about you even mentioning it, though. So be prepared for that. You may have to make a choice between her and your values.
If she doesn't dress too slutty, I personally wouldn't worry about it. I like sexy women, but that's just me. Too slutty, though, sends out the wrong signals.
2007-01-25 12:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump the her, she sounds like a s l u t! And those are not the Christian values that yourself and I share.
2007-01-25 12:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by gay_mantroll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it warrents a discussion before you dump her. Calmly and rationally explain to her that you don't think her attire is appropriate and that modesty is something you value very much. Explain to her that you're not interested in changing her but there is a certain way you feel Christians should represent themselves (and that self respecting women should represent themselves in my personal opinion)...
Or, you know, something like that... just be nice about it.
2007-01-25 12:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by Tiff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, enjoy her while she wears them.
I'm sure she gets a lot of lookers. I would keep her and other guys would think are so lucky to have a gorgeous girl who looks stunning in her outfits.
2007-01-25 12:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cuddly Lez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why? don't try and control her or she will dump you.
Have an open mind, she can wear what she likes, jealously will only get you DUMPED
2007-01-25 12:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by steven m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having these thoughts why don't you talk to her and see what's up.. some girls like dressing that way.. sometimes it makes them feel more confident, and sometimes it's just more comfortable that way.. either way, I'd talk to her if you are worried.
2007-01-25 12:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by knifelvr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know that that is her personality...if you cannot come to terms with that trait...then dump her...I will :)
2007-01-25 12:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depend upon how she use it. It wion't matter if she only use it as fashion nor men's attraction.
2007-01-25 12:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋