His mother has cancer, and she will also give him (and to him about me-) hell. We live next door, and they constantly worry him. If it isn't about his father's back problems it's his mother's cancer. He cleans her house so she won't call me nasty names behind my back. I asked him if he went to her about treating herself (she wont') And he said he had (3 times). I told him she has no right to be mean to me. (he wants to protect me) Or to him. He simply says, "We're close". I don't think close mothers controll their children by being mean to their spouses. (we live next door.) I just want him to talk to me. (Or put his foot down) But we were raised so differently. His mother rules his house, while my house is ruled by my father. (supposedly, i rebelled long ago.) I don't want to hurt him, it's a very sensitive matter with him. I JUST DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!
2007-01-25
12:39:33
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justkiddingu
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Marriage & Divorce