I am attractive, I exercise every now and then. I am often told that I am pretty and sexy. I know that I am. I do meet men but not the ones that I like so I would like to meet more men. I am shy so what should I say to a guy that I want to approach. I think some men get intimated. How can I make myself "approachable" ?
2007-01-25 12:38:07 · 18 answers · asked by lalagirly 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by looking at them a lot and flirting
2007-01-25 12:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using your own words - knowledge / wisdom / understanding.
The KNOWLEDGE that if you try to meet people engaged in the pursuits of your choice, you will strike up a friendship quicker. i.e. something in common.
The WISDOM to back away early if you see warning signs. i.e. possessive / jealous / aggressive.
The UNDERSTANDING that practice makes perfect. i.e. speak often to men - Taxi drivers / information booths / ask for directions / always ask open ended questions that can not be answered with a yes or no./ find out what interests they have and become familiar enough to have a conversation. Your past answers suggest you are a good conversationalist but just shy! Join a personal improvement class that deals with self confidence / practise speaking out loud, there is nothing wrong with a rehearsal - good luck!...
2007-01-25 13:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not attractive to other people, just yourself. I think I'm hot and if I were gay, I'd be on myself like paint on a wall. But if no one else thinks I'm hot, it doesn't matter, ya know?
How to make yourself approachable? That's a loaded question because you could do things that end up attracting all kinds of weirdos and flies and stuff. Just chill. Be cool and interesting. Do something outstanding, talent wise. Make yourself such a hot commodity that you can pick and choose the guys and girls that you want in your life.
2007-01-25 12:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you live in a small town? Small towns suck. Anyone hot is unavailable, weird or been there, done that. So good luck. Maybe someone will move into town. Or go out of town. Make yourself available. Sometimes you've gotta take a chance. Go up and just say hi.
2007-01-25 12:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by HuskersRock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your beautiful, sexy and have an beautiful body to boot,a lot of men are intimidated with you. SO just be nice chat with everyone and when you meet someone you like just let loose some and see where it goes, or just IM me anytime and we can chat.
2007-01-25 12:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Closest may be the girl around the corner type. it is who I married. actually. Her mom became the 1st pregnant woman I ever observed, and enable me hear to her heartbeat formerly she became born with a stethoscope. Been married to her 23 years now, and lovin' it greater advantageous than ever.
2016-11-01 07:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile. Men don't know if you're interested or not. Be a little more obvious.
2007-01-25 12:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by janejane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should make more eye contact with the guys you want to approach.
2007-01-25 12:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I do charge them 10 dollars an hour!
2007-01-25 12:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by Ladylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to them and talk with them.
Good Luck
2007-01-25 12:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋