ok so we have been together over a year but he has ALWAYS been this way! even with his friends. he just doesnt feel that its the biggest deal. it drives me crazy though and i wanna do it back to him. but meanwhile he knows i hate it but he says this is just who i am im sorry. what do i do?
remember hes like this with everyone. not just me. but its really annoying. and its been going on for almost the entire relationship
2007-01-25 12:30:08 · 28 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is just not that into you now
let be honest.
2007-01-25 12:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was just doing thins to you there was be some serious issues going on with that but if he does this to veryone then you shouldn't worry about it. If thats how he is ( no matter how odd that may be) then don't stress it. Now I hope you know for a FACT he is like this with everyone because if he's just the one telling you this then he may not be and you may not even know. But if he's been like this your whole relationship don't sweat it. BE HAPPY!
2007-01-25 12:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by noella. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's like this for everyone then he is not going to change, not at least anytime soon. Don't think you are going to be treated any different. You knew this from the beginning so don't trip now. If you can't deal with it then leave the relationship.
2007-01-25 12:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by YaYa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people - myself included - just look at the phone differently than others. I hardly EVER answer my phone. All day at work, I HAVE to answer the phone - no choice in the matter. I have to talk to coworkers, customers, contractors, etc whether I want to or not.
So - when it comes to my personal phone I look at it this way: I have a phone, and pay for that phone for MY convenience. It is not for whomever is calling me. He may be looking at it the same way.
2007-01-25 12:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by UNITool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to sit this guy down and tell him what you feel. Tell him that you take the time out of your day to call him so he should be considerate enough to take your call. If he gives you any excuses (too busy, can't hear it..) don't fall for that. You should be number ONE on his list and you should never feel second best. If he wants this to work, he's going to have to improve his communication skills. You deserve it!
2007-01-25 12:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Miranda M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just does it to everyone big deal, you're not everyone. You're his girlfriend. I only talk to twop people on the phone my two best friends. I'm not a phone person. But when I got a boyfriend everything changes, I want to talk to him. That's what happens when you love someone. He should want to talk to you, that's what you need. So dump him. You need someone who is willing to talk to you everyday and will return your phone calls. I he hasn't changed yet, he won't.Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-25 12:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question and yet you try to justify his bazaar behavior. If he drives you crazy, why put up with it????? It seems he wants to play childish games with you. Why bother. Dump his butt, he won't ever change. he's all but told you that. if that is how he is, and it drives you crazy, DUUUUUH, why hang around??? Move on and maybe someday he'll grow up. He is immature and childish.
2007-01-25 12:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-25 12:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of doing it back to him, stop calling him period, that will teach him
just tell him your tired of calling for no reason since he doesnt answer anyway...send him an email instead lol he would get it faster.......it will annoy him then he will see your point or realize its just that annoying when he doesnt answer your calls
2007-01-25 12:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Motivation.Inspiration 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this is okay with you why?....And why is inconsideration exceptible behavior to you?....And is this what you really want to saddle yourself with for how long?....Will there ever be a time when enough will be enough?...Will his inconsideration be confined only to not returning phone calls?....hmmm....I don't think so.
2007-01-25 12:44:04 · answer #11 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋