Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

They judge me and judge me when I show the real me. The real me is sad and confused and just so tired of feeling this way. I show a perky happy bubbily pink fluffy girlie happy fun girl ever day and i am tired of putting on a fake me. I feel like I have to put on a face every day cuz if i dont then i will be judged and I dont want that. My parents get on my case for not "involving" them in my life. I dont want to because I feel like they dont really care they just say they want to know to act like they care but they dont. OH Im so confused. Should I keep this fake me up or turn it off and show the real me, the true me.
should I tell my parnets whats going on in my life?

2007-01-25 13:26:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All of my friends hate my parents. The reason is because my mom is strict and they think shes a ***** and my dad is overweight and plays this game like D and D and they always say stuff like "oh i wish your dad would stop playing his game so we could go on the computer" I think the reason they do this is because I complain about them. How can make them see that what they're saying is really offensive without telling them? It sort of is just ok when I say it and I HATE it when they do.

2007-01-25 13:26:19 · 9 answers · asked by Cloudyday 2 in Friends

f your girlfriend were to make a shirt...what would you want it to say.?

I'm customizing a shirt...or a cami rather. Im going to wear it valentine's day. Just wondering what guys...or girls think it should say. Something along the lines of Kris' girl or I love Kris...Kris' *****. Be creative!

2007-01-25 13:25:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 13:24:49 · 11 answers · asked by Girl Nobody 2 in Singles & Dating

I found this guy on Facebook and he seemed cute so I friended him and we have a plan to meet this weekend. However, I got a better look at his pictures and I'm realizing that he's actually not as attractive as I thought. Plus, he's bringing all of his friends so I'll be alone with a bunch of people I've never met and it will be very uncomfortable. What should I do?

2007-01-25 13:23:29 · 17 answers · asked by D-Monster 2 in Singles & Dating

tell me

2007-01-25 13:22:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My family want me there because it's a temporary situation. My new home will ready in a couple of months. I stayed as long as I could but it got too difficult to stay. There is deep personal family history. What should I do?

2007-01-25 13:21:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this old friend of mine came into my life, we're clasmeyts wayback in high school he's my ultimate crush... we studied in different university wen we turned to college, he texted me and told he wants to see me, we've met and he was my first kiss!! after the kiss we bcame close with each ader and i thought he's going to be my bf but i lost my cp and our communication has stopped, after 6 yrs im already working and have a bf for 5years, as i chcked my old email acct. coz i forgot the password i found out that he sent a lot of msgs. and he also indicate his cell. # so i txted him so, we met agen, i found out that he has a gf for 5years also just like me, we see n talk 2 each ader very often,until sumting happned between us, we made love many times,i know that we're both cheating our bf and gf but we tried to stop what we had but it's very difficult b'coz i still have feelings for him, now he's avoiding me and it really hurts me lot.. he told me he loves me bt dat's nt d ryt ting 2 do.

2007-01-25 13:21:02 · 13 answers · asked by cled29 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 6 months and love my husband dearly. I would do anything in the world for him. He treats me with the utmost respect. I couldn't have asked for a better man. He is from Senegal (Africa) and has only lived in the US for less than 3 years. The problem is, he doesn't know how to be romantic. Their cultrure is EXTREMELY different from ours. I am a very romantic woman. I love to do things for him. I have told him the things that I like but it seems as though he really doesn't understand. Can anyone give me some advice on how I can "teach" him our ways on how to be romantic? Maybe it's just too soon and I should just wait it out? Whatever suggestions anyone can give will be helpful. Thanks.

2007-01-25 13:20:36 · 13 answers · asked by QDPie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ever feel like a little kid in grownups clothing?

2007-01-25 13:20:18 · 9 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't mean physical punishment, which I don't agree with anyway, but grounding and taking away privileges and that sort of thing.

2007-01-25 13:19:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this girl i know she really adorable and funnie we get along very well she lives right down the street from me, and i want to tell her how i feel about her. im going to tell her on valetines day im thinking by telling her by giving her flowers and telling her what i think about her by a letter or should i tell her what think about in person.....what do you think i should do?

2007-01-25 13:19:46 · 21 answers · asked by cougar66lt 2 in Singles & Dating

My new co-worker (been working together for a week) told me today that I remind him a lot of his ex-girlfriend. They recently broke up and he still likes her. He said he was just starting to get over her when I started working there and I remind him of her so now he misses her again. Is he trying to tell me something?

2007-01-25 13:19:33 · 13 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Singles & Dating

i need 2 know really bad..

2007-01-25 13:19:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i please need a big help in taking the desicion of my life .
wellm the story is that i met a girl 2 years ago , and she was with one guy b4 me . and they stayed on contact even when we were together. and i loved her so much.now she left me to go and marry him.and while she's there with him she always reply my emails telling me that she still have feelings towards me . and that she went to the other guy in order to make sure not to regret it . if we married without she spend some time with him . now what should i do when she comes from that other man's country . u know after she slept with him for 7 months and after she lived as husband and wife life all this period of time . do u think that i should forgive her and marry her !!! or i should not forgive her at all and tell her that everything is over ??? really my whole life stands on ur adivces my friends ... please tell me what to do ....

2007-01-25 13:19:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 13:18:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She wants something unique not a popular radio hit. She mostly listens to country and classic rock but likes everything.

2007-01-25 13:18:57 · 11 answers · asked by Lynn T 3 in Weddings

i cant picture myself with him but i feel like we are both flirting
we both laugh together and help each other
do you think i like him?
I dont think he has the best looks but he is the only guy i ever really got close to
i am so confused i do think he likes me because i met him through my other friends but he prefers to hang out with me
Are we friends or are we becoming something else

2007-01-25 13:18:48 · 2 answers · asked by godschild 5 in Singles & Dating

okey so. in high school. got a man. luv my man. he luv me. nothing sexual. parents. obviously think we f*** everytym we see eachother. which we dont.
so how would one go about trying to explain. from a "young adult's" point of view. that we jus' like to hang out together. preferrably without people walking in every 5 mins interrupting what were trying to say.


** i know my spellings off.

2007-01-25 13:18:42 · 13 answers · asked by jazz 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't you wonder about some people's parenting skills? They seem to think it's their job to have them, not to raise them. Would an exam and license help?

2007-01-25 13:17:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a really big crush on my friend, he live in another state. I asked him can I come visit him and he said yes so I did the visit everything was cool nothing happened. We hugged and gave each other a kiss on the cheek he watched me come out of the bathroom with a towel on and then watched as I put lotion on. He was a gentleman but I wonder if he may feel the way I do.

2007-01-25 13:17:04 · 6 answers · asked by sweet p 3 in Singles & Dating

Anybody have any suggestions for someone that has been married over 5 years and has done just about everything "generic"??! :)

2007-01-25 13:16:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a place they go, or do they all rely on their friends social networks when trying to meet new people?

2007-01-25 13:16:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

AWWW my ex is hitting on my BEST friend and like MAJOR hitting. Total flirting and the whole "hey so what are you doing friday night? Oh your smile is so pretty I just love it. Your such an amazing person." When im standing RIGHT there! I know hes trying to make me jealous but like I dont konw what to do and what to tell him or my friend.........what to do!

2007-01-25 13:14:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 13:14:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He's super-shy but really cute. Like he'll only talk a lot with his really cute guy friends. i'm pretty sure when i'm "not looking" he'll smile or look at me from across the room (he's in a couple of my classes), but when i look he looks away and blushes.
i like him a lot! but i never get the chance to talk to him.
what should i do?

2007-01-25 13:13:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1) is it weird for a 14(almost 15) year old to have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone? it seems like everyone i know has some kind of hidden love life, and i just...don't. there are a few guys i like, but they are so confusing and i have never known what to think about it...which leads me to question 2...

2) There are 3 guys: guy # 1: i met him a few weeks ago at a party and he's kind of..um...not to be shallow, but heavier than most guys i find attractive, and he's definitely not that cute, but he is easy to talk to (only on IM!), tho he talks way too much about sports and i think he likes me, idk what 2 do about him.

guy # 2: he is 2 years older, and really cute, and ive had a secret crush on him for a while. i recently became good friends with him and i really like him, he's also easy to talk to, but i don't really hang out w/ him that often, and idk if he considers me dating material

guy # 3: adorably cute, i went to a dance w/ him b/c i finally got up the..........

2007-01-25 13:13:13 · 15 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 13:13:12 · 14 answers · asked by Brock 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with a guy for about 5 months and we hardly got to spend time together cause of work...well we decided to call it quits...well its been 3 months and i got a surprise message frum him saying he wanted to see what was up cause he was thinking about me...so now he wants to come chill...Is he doing this cause he wants some bootie???

2007-01-25 13:11:34 · 11 answers · asked by lsl_gros 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to prove to them that I want their help, but how?!

2007-01-25 13:10:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family