1) is it weird for a 14(almost 15) year old to have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone? it seems like everyone i know has some kind of hidden love life, and i just...don't. there are a few guys i like, but they are so confusing and i have never known what to think about it...which leads me to question 2...
2) There are 3 guys: guy # 1: i met him a few weeks ago at a party and he's kind of..um...not to be shallow, but heavier than most guys i find attractive, and he's definitely not that cute, but he is easy to talk to (only on IM!), tho he talks way too much about sports and i think he likes me, idk what 2 do about him.
guy # 2: he is 2 years older, and really cute, and ive had a secret crush on him for a while. i recently became good friends with him and i really like him, he's also easy to talk to, but i don't really hang out w/ him that often, and idk if he considers me dating material
guy # 3: adorably cute, i went to a dance w/ him b/c i finally got up the..........
2007-01-25 13:13:13 · 15 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...courage to ask him. it s fun, but we didn't have much to talk about, though he is really sweet and nice, and i like him. he hung out w/ one of my more popular friends most of the night but im not sure if he likes me or not...he definitely may. i think im gonna invite him to a movie or have a party this weekend...how do i figure out if he's into me quickly, so i don't waste time on him, without things falling apart? we have so much in common, even some of the same friends, though all more popular than me, and we love the same sports and music.
I am asking for anyone who can answer:
*is my situation freakish or weird and what can i do about it?
*how do i figure out which guy is right for me, and how do i get one to ask me out?
PLEASE HELP IT IS APPRECIATED!
2007-01-25 13:16:57 · update #1
they're all funny, nice, friendly guys, but i have no idea how you go about getting asked out.
2007-01-25 13:19:06 · update #2
interesting answer, the one about college and stuff, but yeah, i get good grades, but i really want a serious relationship my life feels so empty right now...i do have jesus and my friends and family and stuff but im so afraid i won't be good enough at relationships to get married, that's my deepest fear-lonliness.
2007-01-25 13:36:24 · update #3
It's not at all weird for you to have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. Just think of it this way: since you've never had a bf or kissed anyone, you can still look forward to your first bf, and your first kiss!
I think Guy #1 should stay a good friend, since you obviously don't have feelings for him.
I think Guy #2, you should ask him out. You don't know if he considers you dating material or not, so there's only one way to find out! He's perfect: easy to talk to, a good friend, and super cute.
I think Guy #3 might not like you as more than a friend. He might even be using you to get to your popular friend! I think you should try it out with him a little more, hang out with him a little more, and just sit back and see what happens.
2007-01-25 13:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what..........You appear to have a nice personality. I can see something here:
You are one of the girls that has the ability to do a complete analysis of the situation - put your thoughts clearly on paper and write concisely and clearly. I bet you are a top student at school. Don't stop at school. A material like you should continue to University and even finish Ph D by age 26 or 27. I think you are that capable.
Boyfriends are a distration. You will be brilliant academically.
Boys come and go. Sure you will find some one you really like to hang out with when you go to college. My sincere advise to you is not to get "involved" with any of them and take your time. Just have fun and laughter with all 3 or even more boys. Go to movies, dinner etc but nothing serious with any of them.
It may not be the answer you expected but I sincerely think that's the right thing to do for an intelligent girl like you.
Good luck to you in whatever you choose to do.
2007-01-25 21:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it is not weird at all for a 14 to have never had a kiss. you are really young, and contrary to what the media portrays, teenagers aren't always in some kind of crazy relationship. it's all just a scam to get you kids out there spending more of your parent's money. so don't worry about anything. put all your worrys about what he's thinking or who she's dating behind you. when the right guy comes around, (probably within the next 10-15yrs), you'll know it.
2007-01-25 21:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im almost 15, and i haven't had my first kiss yet. its okay(: its perfectly normal dont try to push love cause it'll come to you. ask for the guys,
1)If guy #1 is only easy to talk to on aim, you have to know if you are comfortable talking to each other in person. You guys cant live love in the online world.
2)If you wanna find out more about him or get you interested, try hanging out with him more. it could be just the two of you or with a group of people.
3)it sounds like your rushing :O its a good idea that you wanna hang out with him. don't let popularity status stop you guys from seeing each other.
You cant force them to ask you out, but a girl can sure flirt[;
Get more close to them, call them up and hang out more.
Ohbaby[:
GL!
2007-01-25 21:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Wonder Woman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a sweet young woman. It is refreshing to see someone who is innocent for a change. You will have years to pick and choose boys then men. In the meantime, pick the one who treats you the kindest. The one whom you can talk to. This kind of friendship might lead to love eventually. Take your time dear, whats the rush, your only 15. Trust me, if everyone is telling you about their love lives at 15, then most of them are lying.
Gmomma
2007-01-25 21:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's weird to never had a bf or been kissed. You're still young don't worry about it. well it sounds like you don't like guy #1 so maybe u should focus on the other 2. It sounds like you really like guy #2. So maybe u should try to work on that.
2007-01-25 21:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, Id try 3, then 2, then 1. and, no your situatiion is normal. I'm 15. and ive never even kissed a girl. so, youre ok.
anyway, if u wanna chat, im open.
2007-01-25 21:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Food For Thought 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not wierd. I was almost 16 before I had my first b/f. Secondly I think the third guy is perfect for you and by the way you talk about him I think you like him the most. just ask him out most guys like that now.
2007-01-25 21:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by shele9806 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a party and if he keeps talking to your other more popular friend then you it is a good chance he is interested in her. Then go for guy #2
2007-01-25 21:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by sheets0681 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its ok if you almost 15 but if you were almost 16 thats different story, lol
2007-01-25 21:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋