I found this guy on Facebook and he seemed cute so I friended him and we have a plan to meet this weekend. However, I got a better look at his pictures and I'm realizing that he's actually not as attractive as I thought. Plus, he's bringing all of his friends so I'll be alone with a bunch of people I've never met and it will be very uncomfortable. What should I do?
2007-01-25 13:23:29 · 17 answers · asked by D-Monster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you already know! Even if he was as cute as you thought, you should never make plans with a bunch of people you don't know. At the very least, bring a couple of your friends with you. If that's not an option, then don't go! Wait and make a date in a public place where he will be the only one there. Or look for a cuter guy! Whichever :)
2007-01-25 13:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-01 07:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut. Never go into a situation to meet a person via the internet joined by even more strangers. What motives does this person have? Perhaps it is all harmless. But better safe than sorry. If that person won't meet in a open and public place alone. That should send off huge warning flares!
2007-01-25 13:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by lostlatinlover 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If that was me I wouldn't go. I dont get why he's bringing a bunch of his friends. Also, more often than not, people do not look like their pictures. So if you think he's unattractive now realize there is a chance he could look worse in person.
2007-01-25 13:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never mind physical attractiveness. It's irrelevant. If you want to meet him and aren't comfortable in the setup you describe, either meet him some other time or bring friends of your own. Come to think of it, do both...meet him in a public place, and bring someone with you. FOR GOD'S SAKE bring someone with you. It could be a setup. Remember poor Matthew Sheppard?
2007-01-25 13:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
FIRST THING'S FIRST: Are U sure U want to go ahead and MEET up with him, or not???
IF U CAN ANSWER IT AS A "YES"..then bring some of your own friends along...maybe I'll come with U too!...lol =)
I U HAVE "NO" AS THE ANSWER OR "NOT SURE"..then follow those instincts..postpone that "meeting" for another time...and...[gasp] NEVER SHOW UP...EVER!!! *wink* =)
BE CAREFUL...TRUST IN YOURSELF... FIND SOMEONE ELSE..and LETS BE FRIENDS...heyyyyy* ;-)
**Ferrari Girl**
2007-01-25 13:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take your friends and just be friends especially if you are not attracted to him. Maybe he will he look better in person.
2007-01-25 13:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look... physical appearance is just an introduction to a new friend...know what i mean? you've been to having him as a friend so why not stand on it... anyway, it's just a friendship thing and i think he doesn't know any intent from you which is of being more than friends...there's no wrong with it i guess... so why not just go...ok?
2007-01-25 13:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by madz_rock on! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that you decided not to go
you can either lie, and say something big came up
or be honest and say "im very uncomfortable with bein alone with a group of strangers"
2007-01-25 13:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bring all of your friends and have a big party. lol . Tell him the truth.
2007-01-25 13:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋