My boyfriend Broke-up with me!?

Question

My boyfriend broke-up with me! Im so upset i thought we really had something. I've been crying all night and day! What should i do????:(

Answer 1

You move on. Don't be such a weak minded FOOL! Why people let crap like this bug them is foolish. You're wasting time and energy thinking about some ****** who doesn't want you. Move on, find a guy who'll appreciate you and treat you like you want to be treated.

Either that or bang his best friend while you're videotaping it and post that MF on the 'net...

Answer 2

I know it hurts now, and it feels like you'll never get over him, but eventually you will. Time heals everything. It's going to be really tough for you over the next few months (there is no sense in sugarcoating it).

But I also promise you it will get easier. That is one thing you can hang onto during your darkest, saddest moments. OK, go look at yourself in the mirror right now. You might not have a boyfriend anymore, but you're the same girl you were when you did have him--he didn't take anything away from you when he left you. If anything, you can thank him for adding to your experiences and personality during the relationship. You might not realize this, but he affected who you are today and who you will be years from now (whether it was because of his good behavior or bad).

Next, let's talk about what to expect. You'll probably go through the normal five stages of grieving a loss: denial (not accepting the fact that he did this to you), anger (putting the blame on him), bargaining (thinking you'll do anything if he'll only take you back), depression (feeling sad and hopeless) and finally acceptance (the best stage of them all--realizing that you are just fine without him!).

Keep a journal to see how you're evolving through these stages.

And P.S.: Hang onto it as a reminder of how far you came for the next time you go through a breakup. (Unfortunately, this probably isn't your last heartbreak.)

Remember: You are still the same strong girl you were before you met him, and you'll come out of this an even stronger--and more experienced--girl.

Until then, don't stay home and ruminate about the breakup. Get out there and have fun with your friends. That will help you get through those five stages a little more easily.

Answer 3

I'm sorry. I've been there. I went through a nasty divorce 4 years ago. The best thing to do is stay in your routine. Work, school, daily commitments stick with what is stable. Go out with friends. Don't think it's the end of the world because it isn't life does get better. Also do not let him jerk you around I've made that mistake many times and I just ended up getting hurt again and again. Also bawl your eyes out, you have to it's part of the healing process. Do something to make yourself feel good. Get a pedicure and manicure, eat some chocolate. Get lots of hugs from the people who love you. Take care, I feel for you.

Answer 4

This happens all the time and is, unfortuantely, a part of life. It'd sound kinda harsh if I just told you to get over it, but that is exactly what you need to do. If he broke up with you 'cause he's a jerk, then he isn't important enough for you to cry over him. If he broke up because he didn't think it was wroking and he wanted to spare your feelings, then just let the emotions out. It is normal to cry over this. Just let the emotions out, you'll get over it soon. Time heals most wounds, especially ones like this. Good luck to you and don't cry too much, it isn't worth all the trouble.

Answer 5

just think about it...why did you like him? Did you really need him? Was he perfect for you or was he a jerk.? Just think about all of the things that you did not like about him and believe that someoneesle will treat you better. I just lost my boyfriend or lover so I am a little down too. I think about him all day but I say hey you win some you loose some

Answer 6

First, you need to know that there is nothing wrong with you. Second, maybe he isn't even exactly broken up with you, he just needs a break because maybe he needs more time for school and work or whatever. Lastly, maybe you should take counseling if it's really that bad. :D Wish you well.

Answer 7

omg! move on with your life and make everyone think he really lost a good catch and hes a dumb ***. U cant go around cryin all over yourself when one stupid guy breaks up with you!!! Ur gonna have tons of f**in break ups over the years! its part of life! Whatre u gonna do when your husband files for divorce or something some day?? Are you gonna kill yourself??

Answer 8

Wallow. Indulge in chocolate and Earl Grey. Take a hot bubble bath. Watch a sad movie.

Works for me.

Answer 9

BE happy that this happen now and not after, star a new life, there are many men in the world, not the one that does not love you anymore, there is always someone toi see in other direction

Answer 10

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