I was looking for a romantic place for us to go out to eat, so I found this place and he stated "We go out to eat here all the time" implying people from work. This place was all candle light, and mostly couples were in there. So after we were done eating there I saw a little bar across the street and suggested us to go there to dance a little he stated he wont like that place its just a little hole in the wall I said so lets go....and he said no that bar I been there a couple of time after work and you wouldnt like it. so we didnt go because he wouldnt. when I later looked that place up online it seemed to have good reviews and I told him that and he told me to forget about that place and stormed off to bed.
We have been married for ten years, and he has lied in the past, what you guys think.
2007-01-25 12:18:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
wow i don't have an answer to that sorry.
2007-01-25 12:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by needanswers 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well being that you have checked into the place and it was a pretty nice place then you ought to pupse to go there on a later date.Also do not worry about it until you all go out again .But do not feel bad at all about asking your husband something that you might find important in your heart. Because in the long run you will feel bad that you did not ask.Also go ahead in prepare for the worse because then you want feel bad.Also in the Bible God himself said put your trust in no man because men will deceive you so if you look for the worse maybe it want hurt so bad.
2007-01-25 20:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by weeping eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well maybe he is seeing someone and now that he seems your getting closer to finding out he is getting defensive. But why not go out and see who it is. Especially since he eats there all the time. AND then when they cross the street to teh bar take a picture. ALso you can ask the waitresses from teh lunch hour to keep an eye out for him and if he's going there with a woman to call you and you will compensated them. ANd it won't be long before you find out, if you need a friend IM me anytime
2007-01-25 20:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him what you're thinking. Ask how does he know so much about these places. It's better to get everything out in the open otherwise it causes angry feelings to brew inside of you. Be prepared to hear things that maybe you don't want to hear. It is best to know answers then to end up being the fool. Hopefully it is all just exactly what he says--I hope so for you.
2007-01-25 20:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by hailesellase 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just sit your husband down and confront the situation. Don't let this keep gnawing at you. Tell him why you suspect he MIGHT be seeing someone else. If he answers "Yes" then you deal with it. If he says "No" (and you believe him) explain to him how you felt about the evening you went to dinner. I can understand why you feel the way you do but there might be an explanation you haven't thought of.
Good luck. Keep us posted.
2007-01-29 19:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is acting suspiciously, but you have no proof, so you either need to get proof or talk to him and find out what is going on. Tell him you are concerned about his reaction, and give him a chance to explain himself.
2007-01-26 08:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would flat out confront him. Tell him that you would hope that he has enough respect for you to tell you the truth. And tell him what you know and what you are thinking, see what he says.
Regardless, this is up to you to believe what he says or not.
I wouldnt wish this on anyone. Good luck to you.
2007-01-25 21:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask the man if he is having an affair,do not assume and then your assumption is wrong, this can only lead to trouble in your marriage.Depends on what he said then you will know how to react.
2007-01-25 20:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by bluebird 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know the two of you so I can't tell you an answer. What I can say is "once a liar, always a liar", maybe you could suggest counseling?
2007-01-25 21:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it doesnt matter what anyone but you thinks... It does sound odd but, you never know. I guess if you really needed to know you could hire someone such as a P.I to let you know for sure.
2007-01-29 02:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.....Well I may say youre just exagerating but then it sounds wierd. But since he has lied before i would keep watching him.
2007-01-25 22:55:48 · answer #11 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋