wat do i do i cant tll him th truth cuz hell stp likn me if he finds out im a lier
2007-01-25 12:23:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop telling lies to people and learn how to spell.
2007-01-25 12:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a man, if a girl tells me that they've been lying to me, and they stop doing it, I'll forgive them once, everyone makes mistakes. Mabey you did it becuase you had no self esteem and deep down inside you felt if you were someone else, they would stay with you... You can allways change and become better or differint, I do it all the time. You should take some time to sit down and talk to yourself, and figure out who you really are. Then tell him that you've been lying to him and that you will be honest from now on, that you were messed up or "emotionally disturbed," but now you are better and will continue to be better for them. Your putting this up because you know very well that if you keep the lies up and he finds out before you explain, HE WILL BE MAD, and might leave you for sure.
2007-01-25 12:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by TaerinX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but if you REALLY liked him, you should've told the truth from the jump. I'm sure you realize that if you tell him the truth about everything, you're taking a huge gamble on the bond you guys created. If he likes you as much as you like him, he'll trash it. But I have a feeling he won't be happy about being lied to.
2007-01-25 12:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok couple of issues a million) you have met this guy as quickly as - you do not be responsive to him and he does not be responsive to you in actual existence so how can he even probably think of of presenting as you do not additionally be responsive to a minimum of one yet another! massive mistake! 2) you won't be able to misinform your mom and dad? in case you are the right age to be in a relationship with this guy or woman (how outdated are you and how outdated is he?) there should not be a situation. seeing which you would be able to desire to lie you needless to say experience guilt concerning the full project - a relationship you experience in charge approximately isn't a sturdy element. 3) in case you're utilizing imprecise excuses existence "cat stuff" what does he choose you to do, Run Away? that isn't a healthful relationship to be in as a results of fact he's sending all of the incorrect alerts and additionally you're in charge and heading off the placement with "cat stuff". So all in all, tell him the fact in case you won't be able to do it in guy or woman or on the telephone deliver an digital mail. If he won't be able to admire your possibilities and maintains, I hate to declare it yet talk on your mom and dad as a results of fact this guy must be some variety of sexual predator. i grew to become into raped with the help of a b/f whilst i grew to become into 15 - all as a results of fact i did not have confidence my instincts or choose to be... mean to the guy I enjoyed. all of the main suitable.
2016-12-16 17:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You met him on the net?? No, don`t be dating that person!! Well, unless you know he`s at your school/workplace, but you just haven`t properly met yet.
Maybe you should`nt have lied??
If he is a forgiving guy, he won`t mind, that is if you didn`t lie about important stuff.
I wish you good luck =]]!!
2007-01-25 12:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, tell him the truth. you aren't going to anywhere lying to him, he will find out sometime. tell him the truth, and he will either accept you for who you are, he might admit he lied to you, or he won't like you anymore. you have to face him sometime, so better get it done with.
hope it goes well!
2007-01-25 12:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by island.girl24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u lied to keep your identity secret and yourself safe then tell him. If he really matters he won't care.
2007-01-25 12:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by lovelylittlelady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly did u lie about? was it age? looks? or to keep him from tracking u and stalking you? if its the latter he will understand. please provide what lies you have told and we can better help you.
2007-01-25 12:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... tell him the truth anyway... he probably wont stop talking to you... or he will for alittle but he will talk to you again
2007-01-25 12:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as possible, tell him the truth. if he likes you, he accept your forgiveness. i hope you will never do it again.
2007-01-25 12:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋