Ok, I have this friend, we "used" to be best friends, see she's less fortunate I guess you say she works hard for what she gets and, see My Parents "spoil" me and everytime I get something new she gets mad, and I don't even brag. Whats wrong? Is it me or her?
2007-01-25 12:20:19 · 3 answers · asked by jscifres02 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I thought I might would need to add this. She doesn't get mad over everything I get, like recently my parents bought me a Razr for my birthday and she got so pissed. but if I get a shirt she won't get mad.
2007-01-25 12:36:34 · update #1
your friend is putting an important price on material objects. she can't stand seeing you "have it all" and do nothing to earn it.she'd feeling "it's not fair""why not me?".she needs to enjoy the blessing that she has. People see the spoiled life as lucky,blessed,fortunate. Sometimes all the money leads to the damnation of souls. Your friend need to look for the hidden blessings of the whole picture. Maybe you need to stop allowing your parents to spoil you and grow up and earn an honest dollar to make you a more responsible person. one that is Little more compassionate.
2007-01-25 12:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's a little green with envy. Since she works so hard for her stuff, it might be a little difficult for her to see you get something without having to lift a finger. She probably doesn't think it's very fair that life dealt her the cards she has. But, that's not your fault. It's just something that she is dealing with internally and hopefully she can stop projecting this at you. If she can't then maybe you two should just part your ways and leave it at that.
2007-01-25 20:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's jealous that she don't have the same attention that you do but after all it aint your fault that your parents choose to spoil you!!!!!
2007-01-25 20:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by sweetness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋