Tell me what you think....?

Question

There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke *** college student, and I cannot afford them, but then he's still asking me to told me to call him on his cell phone for a free session, and he told me not to worry about it...and so i told him I would let him know but he will text me, and tell me that he wants to hook me up, and money is no problem, so I booked the free session, but my question is why is he being so pushy..

And then yesterday..he comes up to me and chat a litle bit, and then at the end of the converssation, Itold him well I gotta get going, and he asks me "How come everytime I see you you're leaving'" and adds"I'm not ruining your experience here at the gym" I'm thinking hmmm intresting..

Answer 1

Lolz, you think 2 much.

He's really just doing his job. Gyms hire guys like this in order to keep their members around and encourage them to keep on working out. He sounds like a great guy, so I wouldn't be afraid to hang out or go out with him or do something special in your case.

Just enjoy him for what it is and if something develops out of this, then good for you!

:-)