me and my gilrfriend are 11 and have been going out for a while now,and when we get on the school bus we don't have aything to talk about.So help me PLEASE.
2007-01-25 12:24:35 · 18 answers · asked by lil2779 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What ever comes to mind.
Good Luck
2007-01-25 12:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have anything in common, like books, movies, video games? Since you're both in the same school, you must have some classes together, you could talk about an upcoming test or a favorite teacher.
Try those things, and see what happens. Good luck.
2007-01-25 12:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play "I Spy" or sing "The wheels on the bus." That is what 11 year olds who have been going out for a while should do. Catch up on being KIDS.
2007-01-25 12:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk about "The Magic School Bus," a show that's perfect for people in your age range.
2007-01-25 12:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow 11. Well understand at your age she'll probably be the first of many. Maybe you two are too uncomfortable to be going out.
2007-01-25 12:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Cristina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly, im 16 and i found out that if u dont talk your whole relationship is weird, and it will ruin it. basically just be ur self, im big in music so i ask what kind of music she likes and talk further on that, go even further and ask what songs and find something you have in common. find something that makes you both laugh. talk about school, its one thing u both have in common. anything that happens in school ask her about it. make her feel comfortable around u, if shes comfortable, your comfortable. show her u care about her more than other girls
2007-01-25 12:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold her hand. say her eyes look pretty. or i like ur hair. then ask her whats shes gonn do that week or that week end. and make fun of her a little. but u have to talk. or some other guy that talks will talk to her while ur next to her being quite. and she will ike him more. or if ur quite, she will think u dont like her. so talk. talk on the phone with her alot. the more utalk onthe phone with her. the easier it is to talk to her when ur with her. make ur laugh. eat candy or choclate and share it with her.
2007-01-25 12:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by beach_babe971 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just joke around. Ask her questions, tell her about your day or some dream you had or something annoying that your parents did to you. Just get the ball rolling, you know? It's awkward, I know, but really, just relax and be yourself and you'll be fine!! And more talkative. :)
2007-01-25 12:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 11? well you MUST be in 6th grade! Ok you just make out with her on the bus so every one will look at you as if you so COOL or as every body else says it (KOOL)
2007-01-25 12:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You guys can talk about school work, about your parents, about siblings, movies, cartoons. Uh, find things you have in common. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-25 12:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. Movies, sports...music, whatever shes into.
But you really should be focusing on school, not a girlfriend. What you think is love isnt.
2007-01-25 12:32:26 · answer #11 · answered by Noelskies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋