married her?i just found a stack of love letters,cards,photos from my bfs old gf.we have been dating for 5yrs and he has never once said a word about her but has talked about other gfs in his past.i asked his sister about this and she told me he left his wife for her 7yrs ago and they have a long datting history together.but she also told me he dated her for 7mons after he left his wife but cheated on her with 2 different women that she never found out about.i also found out she has contacted him recently why has he not said anything to me?how come he has never said a word about her to me?the question i really would like a anwser to is why if she means so much to him why would he cheat on her with 2 different women but if she means nothing but good sex why save all the stuff she gave him?
2007-01-25 11:41:37 · 4 answers · asked by fran6getty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get out now . sounds like a very selfish guy .
2007-01-25 11:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by dcj2372 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to just tell you that all that is his past and there is no reason to being this back up in ya'll's relationship ( there is a reason why those girls are in the past, and now you are with him). He has not told you because he doesn't want you to know.FROM WHAT IT SOUNDS LIKE with a guy like that it doesn't matter how much the girl means to him or who the girl is.. he sounds like a cheater.. he left his wife for another women? only dated her for 7 months? ruined his marraige for a girl he only cares about for 7 months !!! then turned around and cheated on that girl with not only 1 other women but another women !! it doesn't matter how much that girls ment to him... it sounds like he cares about himself more no matter what. .. that girl prob. is a nice memory to him thats why he kept it.. it also sounds like he doesn't want to be faithful to anyone. remember you can not change a guy !!! but he can change your life forever if u let him.. good luck
2007-01-25 19:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Emmie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another example of a man who doesn't know what he wants, and he's probably cheating on you, too.
2007-01-25 19:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of commitment?
2007-01-25 19:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋